Any women on here that are struggling with a husband addicted to porn? I am so lost and hurting. This has been going on…

My husbands not addicted but he does watch it from time to time. And idk I asked him about it one day and he says there's nothing against us or our bodies or anything like that it's just a guy thing I guess.

I just don't understand why I am not enough. I have horrible self confidence as it is. His dad is addicted to it too. It's so bad that he even takes his lunch into the locker room at work so he can watch it then. He even lost his previous job because of being on his phone too much on company time! @lifewithplumms

Have you tried talking to him and telling him how you really feel not holding anything back? Maybe he doesn't see a problem with it because you haven't spoke up and really said anything.

@lifewithplumms, we have talked about it on countless occasions. I have tried over and over again to explain just how much it hurts. He will agree that it's wrong just for arguments sake, but he doesn't truly see it as wrong.

I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I hope one day he realizes what he's doing is really hurting you. My husband at first you say he didn't understand why it hurt me cause it was just porn then one day he realized how much it hurt when I broke down and cried to him.

@lifewithplumms, is your husband still watching it after you talked to him and cried?

Regardless of religion pray that Jesus can deliver him . And to take the desire of watching it from him. If you need any advice message me ... My husband wasn't addicted to porn but he had other addictions as did I and I prayed to Jesus to deliver us also did some other stuff. Lol if u need any guidance message me I ll help u out

@ladyb3lle, thanks. I have been praying for years for God to take that desire from him. I am going to talk to our pastor tomorrow. I've been putting it off for so long because I am embarrassed. But it's time. I can't take this anymore!!

Don't let the enemy allow you to feel that way

@logansmommy2016, no.