Мамлайф
Мамлайф
Приложение для мам
Maylon
Maylon
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Is it bad that I wish I had my children's father to talk to? Is it bad that I can instant forgive him and still want to…

Is it bad that I wish I had my children's father to talk to? Is it bad that I can instant forgive him and still want to work things out? I love him and want my family back. I want to talk to him everyday but I know that is now all over because we both changed and unfortunately we didn't change together and in the same direction. I just want my bestfriend back too.

15

Комментарии

mommy247

QuameciaМама дочки (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)

Just truth girl...hope everything works out for you!

Ответить

kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

That really meant a lot to me when I read it and very powerful thank you so much @mommy247

Ответить

mommy247

QuameciaМама дочки (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)

Been there girl... was there. Decided I absolutely could not go back. I struggle with the same hurt of not having someone to go through this with. But sometimes we allow ourselves to get in situations that were never for us. I've painfully after two children with this person, learned that not only am I stopping my growth by going where I've already been removed from, but I am also blocking his. I'm not saying your situation is the same or that I don't struggle too, but girl what I am saying is as a momma, can you see your sons being him one day and their wives being you? You all are their examples. If you being together through the process does not inhabit growth, then you are bringing them into your toxic situation. Don't allow your situation to scare you from your future. God still has a plan for your life. Focus on you and allow the changes to come to you. That way you don't find yourself chasing what is already yours❤ Keeping you in prayer☺

Ответить

kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

I left when I couldn't take anymore. He doesn't know I forgive him because we haven't talked in a week and more than likely won't talk at all anymore. He says he's only going to communicate about the children but it's a week later and hasn't tried to call to talk to his son. @mommy2be2aprincess

Ответить

kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

I honestly can't stop praying @summerrye

Ответить

mommytomckenzie

Nicole MarieВ ожидании первенца

I feel you. I don't know what happened. But the more you forgive him, the more it's gonna keep happening. He has to make the same amount of effort you are, and you have to notice it. It does get better though, just keep your head up.

Ответить

summerrye

Summer RutherfordВ ожидании первенца

That's understood Hun pray about it I'm here in you need to talk believe I've been through it !! @soon2b2

Ответить

kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Thank you. I don't know if it is or not anymore @summerrye

Ответить

summerrye

Summer RutherfordВ ожидании первенца

I feel the same sometime but you have to determine if it's worth it . Personally mine isn't. I wish you the best ma'am. ❤️

Ответить

kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Thank you @stephyg82 I'm finally letting it all out after a week of our last fight.

Ответить

kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

I don't even know what to expect this time around our first child we had issues out of our control then things got better we got engaged and all but yeah that's no longer unfortunately. @cheche27

Ответить

stephyg82

stephyg82Мама двоих (3 года, 13 лет)

😢 this made me cry. I pray your family will be whole again.

Ответить

kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)

It's crazy because I remember what he says and wish he never said it and then realized how much he's changed and was never this person. I just don't know what got into him @jboyd

Ответить

cheche27

NicholeМама дочки-младенца

I totally understand. I feel like an ass cause I constantly forgive my hubby ! He treated me like shit during the end of my pregnancy but baby is here n all of a sudden he wants to be a big happy family

Ответить

jboyd

JCМама сына (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)

Girl I know exactly how you feel until I remember all the mean shit he said

Ответить

Opinions! I’m pregnant with my ex boyfriends third child it is our second together. Our daughter is 3, we split up a…

Opinions! I’m pregnant with my ex boyfriends third child it is our second together. Our daughter is 3, we split up a week before I found out I was pregnant. He doesn’t want to fix things. And I’ve been trying to sorta ask him to come home but found out some news that completely broke my heart. I sorta started to talk to someone that doesn’t live in my state but works around my area sometimes.. we spent some time together while he was here and he will be back in 3 weeks.. am I doing something wrong I feel weird I’m pregnant...

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.