So my ex is wanting our daughter overnight for the first time since we split up. At first I told him no since he never tried before and he wanted nothing to do with her once we broke up (since he was all about the woman he cheated on me with and her kid). Then I changed my mind and told him yes but last night his mom got drunk and was telling me that he watches her daughter here and there and that the girlfriend got into some trouble to where she needs a lawyer.... (not over child support either since she doesn't get any) So now he's mad and trying to make me feel bad about it. Should I?
I don't feel comfortable with it at all. He cant handle her more then 5 minutes. If she screams and cries he yells at her to tell her to stop. He's NEVER had her by himself and he was barely around when we were together. She's almost 3. He is a good father when he's actually around but he is not responsible at all.
If you don't feel comfortable with it then don't leave her with him. Mama knows best :)