So guy made a comment under his breath to his buddy while passing me in Target, while looking at bathing suits and said "that bitch is in the wrong section, doesn't she know the plus sizes are in the back of the store so people cant see their fat asses trying to be cute."
I turn around acted like i didn't hear him and "accidentally" ran into him. He saw my prego belly and his face went white. "Oh I'm sorry i didn't see you, are you ok?"
Assuming he means did he hurt my belly. I said
"Oh its ok very sorry I'm not as stable as i used to be. Since Ive been pregnant its harder for my fat ass to move around assholes like you in time to get out of your ways" ...He then said to me "Ma'am I'm very sorry, i do hope you can forgive me, i didn't realize you were expecting. And you have a beautiful little belly. But i have to admit i just made a shity comment about you without even knowing you were expecting."
I so acted confused. And he said "it a great thing to bare a baby, i do hope your baby is ok and good luck."
Men and Woman need to know even if i wasn't expecting it is never ok to body shame. If a girl regardless of size wants to wear a bikini that is her right. I have never been more than a "twig", "skin and bones" or a "runt" my entire life. The most I've weighed is with my pregnancy at 125lbs. I used to be body shamed for being skinny, now being body shamed cause im bigger is ridiculous! No one is ever happy with how I look and thats ok cause i like myself the way I am. Dont let anyone else make you feel bad cause you dont have the "perfect little belly" or cause you "don't really look like you're expecting"
Just remember you have a blessing and embrace it. Stop thinking negative and start loving. 🖕🏻✊🏻💁❤️
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Dude seems pretty ignorant. Luckily, he didn't beat the hell out of you for hitting him with the buggy. That situation could have went totally different. Sorry that you went through that.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
@mrsjaywills, well id like to see a "man" hit a pregnant woman in open public.. That would be interesting. But i dont see any other way it would have gone differently other than him being a douche and telling me to fuck off.