I need some advice ladies. It's about the in laws.
So my husband is a grandma's boy. No doubt about it. He is her baby. She has always been a problem. When my husband and I went through a bad time and were thinking about divorce this woman would call/text/facebook a bunch of crap about.
Posted on facebook for all my family to see that I was a whore and drug head and a bad mom. Texted me saying I am white trash and she feels sorry for my daughter to have a mother like me. And so so so much more.
When my husband and I decided to work it out she told my husband that I should apologize to her! When she would go on her rants about me, I ignored her. I never even cussed at her even though she was saying all those mean things.
Well once Seth told her that we were working it out she all of a sudden love to me again and she was so happy.
I guess I resent her a little bit for all the mean things she has said to and about me. She never said she was sorry. And I have tried to move passed it and be happy and some days are better than others. Some days I can talk to her for hours and everything be fine. Then I start remembering everything she's done and I get angry and I don't want to talk to her for a while. I've been abused almost my whole life. And it's like everytime I get comfortable with her my brain reminds me just how evil this woman is.
Well now that I am pregnant with her first great grandson things are even worse. She calls or text me all the time. Saying how I NEED to have this baby. And blah blah blah. It's pissing me off. No one wants me to have this baby more than me! Also she constantly tries to turn the family against me. If I dont reply to her she calls my husband crying and his whole family saying I am ignoring her and hurting her feelings.
I am PREGNANT. I sleep almost the whole day. I don't talk to ANYONE everyday.
I guess to start a fight it would hurt me to reply back to her when she text but I don't want to. Maybe I am being pitty but I am tired of her controlling my whole life. If I do something she doesnt like then i am the bad guy. My husband tells me to just let it go and the more I do the more shit she pulls!
My son isn't even here yet and she is already fighting me over him. Telling me what I should name him and how he is going to be HER boy. I feel like I am about to blow up!

Anyways, am I being petty? Should I just give into her to keep the peace or is she being crazy? I know she wants to know about my son and when i go into labor but we have told her multiple times when I go into labor that everybody will get a text message so they all know. She keeps thinking she should be the exception to the rule. And know everything before anybody else even my family. This is also the same woman that guilt trips my husband and spending time with her instead of going to see my family after boot camp when my family didn't get to see him at all either and we already been hanging out with her a few days before then. Everything is about her