You know, this may sound mean but then again this is social media and we can say whatever we want.
A lot of you guys put up with a lot of shit from the sounds of it. Abusive SO's, hateful in laws, etc.
Instead of confronting the person (or persons) you have a problem with, you bitch about it, waiting for sympathy.
You have absolute control over the things that are yours: your body, feelings and material things.
To allow someone else to affect them, or worse control them, and do nothing but bit...