I agree if he was so anxious enough to put a baby in her then he should be man enough to take care of his kid and his childs mother. There should be no reason why a mother should be a single one.

Child support I agree with but the rest was all dumb. How you gonna do that just cause he don't wanna be with you? So immature.

My bf has 2 boys from his ex. Since we have been together his other baby mama won't let him see them, it's now been 2 years. He's pays almost $1000 in child support a month. Unlike most guys, he actually wants to pay child support but it kills him that she won't let him see the boys because he has another family. Now we are going to court to try and get visits with them😓 it's horrible.

I agree with child support but not with all that other stupid mess.

My daughters dads in jail i dont tell my daughter shes 3. He dont want to see her he is back with his ex. Ive moved on too he went in when she was 5 months. I have full custody of her and i do not want child support. Oh and he says his x wont let him be in my childs life because they have a son. Smh

me and my baby daddy split. as his daughter isn't born yet I'm not pushing him he refuses to see my 2 year old he said he wanted to adopt. but I feel if he puts his new girl before his kiddo I won't let him see her. if he keeps going like he's going he won't see her at all after she is horn. if you don't have respect enough for your child to see them then why keep pressing the issue?

as for child support in WA if your on tanf they will go after the father for child support I don't want to make him pay but the state will so honestly no choice in that matter but hey h wants to man up and see the kids then fine but he better prove it soon.

that's fucked up! first, child support are for fathers who don't help at all, or don't want to be around. second, every child needs their father, with the mother or not. before my husband and I were together and married, we had our first son and we weren't together. i always told him no matter how much I fought with him, he can always see our son whenever he wanted, I wouldn't keep him from our son because the problem was between us not our son. I didn't put him on child support because he bought everything for our son, and actually did for me too even tho we weren't together. the only time I think a child shouldn't be by their father is if there was abuse involved on the mother or child, drunk 24/7 or hard core drugs(not weed), or if there's bad habits or examples that can effect the child.

yes I think the daddy should pay child support if they are not together but I don't believe that the dad shouldn't be able to.see.the child. if the dad wants to be in the child's life but not to woman's life then let him. but if the father is making poor choice that are effecting the child then I can see not having the child around.

👎that's childish... just because he doesn't want to be with you doesn't mean you have to right to stop a man from being in his child's life ...that's what wrong with some of these women using these kids as leverage.. the child is the one who suffers.... ugh some people need to grow up!

that poor boy.. why cant the man just move on.. as long as he is there for his child.. you are not his wife.. he owes you nothing smh these little girls..

I don't agree , me and my son's dad are together but I wouldn't make him be with me to see BOTH of our child I think if he is still supporting his son. he should have rights to. I would never try to make him be in either of our lifes but if he chooses to then that's fine to.

This is ridiculous, if the father of your child isn't with you it's not the baby fault. Things just didn't work out, it's called self respect and knowing that not everything is meant to be, we have to learn to let go and not hold grudges . But if he doesn't want to see his son, then my son will not see him . Point blank