I really need some advice kinda lengthy. So my husband works all the time like all day everyday literally. He spends like 2 hours with me and our 2 kids. Well we have this argument all the time. He wants to go do stuff like get drunk and hang out but he can't ever spend any time with us. We make plans to and it all gets ruined. He is always saying he wants him time. What would you do in this situation?
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@angmill123, My boyfriend is currently working in a warehouse where he has to do a lot of manual labor. When he gets home, he is very tired, and I'm ready for cuddles as soon as he gets home because I've been without him all day. We argue about this often, but we've finally agreed to let him come home and unwind with his video games for a couple hours, and then spend some time with me. In your situation, I agree with what @jadestarlight suggested. Trade off "me time". Let him go out once in a while. It's not that he doesn't want to spend time with you, it's just that he misses the things he used to do, like going out with his friends. Talk to him. Communicate what you're wanting and feeling, and let him communicate what he wants to you. Just remember to listen. It'll all work out 😄
denying them having alone time isn't going to make him want to spend time with me either. relationships are compromises. trade have time where he stays with the kids and you go hang out with your friends. everyone needs me time.
maybe he wants time alone because the constant begging him for time or fighting with him is stressing him out, give him time to himself for a little while. @angmill123 maybe that will help. I mean I know fighting after a long day at work can't be fun for him. Not trying to be mean, I went through this with my husband Too, but he works and pays the bills.
@jadestarlight, even if he doesn't want to spend time with you?
I am grateful and he works hard I just don't get why he doesn't want to spend time with us. it's like he wants to be a teenager again. and he can't.
My SO works 3jobs only see him in passing. Just be grateful hes working and pray about😉
lol. I wish I knew. like i have no clue. we have been together for 6 years now married for almost 3.
my boyfriend does the SAME thing. when you figure out what to do you should let me know.
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okay :) I'll try that! thanks ladies.