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Abigail kissam
Abigail kissam
Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года), ждёт третьего

so my daughter's went to there father's yesterday for visitation for a whole month. this is like the 5th time there…

so my daughter's went to there father's yesterday for visitation for a whole month. this is like the 5th time there going but I'm especially a mess ever since I dropped them off I can't stop crying, I can't sleep or eat. they hate going over there, my daughter cried and screamed till she threw up all over when she seen her father, I felt soooooo bad. I need prayers to get thru this really difficult time I want to just stop crying and get to a point where I can eat. 😕😢💔

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jncahorn

Nicole

Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

that is seriously the worst feeling ever. and nothing you can do about it. i know how you feel momma! prayers ♡♡ @abigailmb02

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abigailmb02

Abigail kissam

Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года), ждёт третьего

thankyou @jncahorn

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sarahdrew

Sarah Drew

Мама двоих (младенец)

prayers mama, wish you didn't have to go thru that, do they just not like their father? or is there something more there? I feel bad for your girls, I know you just want to protect them

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abigailmb02

Abigail kissam

Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года), ждёт третьего

thankyou, and idk what it is. everytime they see him or his family they go crazy they start screaming and crying. there only 2 and a half they don't talk so they can't tell me what it is so I feel so helpless not knoing if something's really wrong. @sarahdrew

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sarahdrew

Sarah Drew

Мама двоих (младенец)

have you talked to a lawyer? some may do free consultations if need be, they may be able to point you in the right direction as to finding out the issue

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adams115

Rachel

Мама подростка, беременна (35 нед.)

They are still young so they may just be more used to mom. Does he see them a lot? If not, that might be why. You are doing the right thing from the sound of it.

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abigailmb02

Abigail kissam

Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года), ждёт третьего

I got a lawyer and we went to court, they gave him visitaions which is fine and it's going to decrease dramatically next year when they start school @sarahdrew

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abigailmb02

Abigail kissam

Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года), ждёт третьего

he hardly ever sees them and never talks to them or checks up on them when there with me. I hoping that's all it is but still hurts seeing them like that @adamsbaby2016

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adams115

Rachel

Мама подростка, беременна (35 нед.)

Yeah, I don't doubt it. He probably hasn't earned there trust yet.

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sarahdrew

Sarah Drew

Мама двоих (младенец)

I agree with @adamsbaby2016 they don't really know him, my son is 2 1/2 and won't go to anyone he doesn't really know he hides behind me or his dad.... it's a stranger danger thing... I bet they see him as a stranger

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I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older…

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!

Opinions on crying it out?

Opinions on crying it out? My baby is 8 1/2 months old. I've tried the no tears method and it worked a couple times but now it doesn't anymore. I do squats while holding her and rock her (21 lbs baby) for over an hour each nap all for nothing. My friend said she did cry it out and by the 3rd day her baby would only cry 5 minutes and now he's totally fine with sleeping in the crib. Opinions please? I am the only one who actually raises my kid. My fiancé does not help and I have no family that helps. So it is very hard on me. Thank you Edit: because clearly some of the women on here think I'm a monster. I am an EMT. When I go back to work, I will be gone 24 hours at a time. My daughter is almost 9 months old and cries every minute she is not in my arms. As much as I want to comfort her every second of the day, I can't. And it's better I get her used to sleeping on her own now, than not letting her cry and all of a sudden mommys gone for 24 hours at a time and she completely loses it and I can't just get off work to comfort her.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?