Why would you be planning to get pregnant when you KNOW you aren't stable enough for a child? selfish selfish 🙃😤

i just had to say that shit that my best friend today. he has a 6 year old that she can hardly take care of except woth government assistance and no job. but she just got with this dude and they have been together not even 2 months and she thinks she might be pregnant. shes talking about marriage and hes already moved in and everything. i'm just over here SHM.

@huntersmommy101, :( it makes me sad. The babies didn't ask for life and they have to deal with their parents mistakes.

It's one thing if it happens by mistake. Then you have to get your shit together pronto for that baby! But to plan on getting pregnant when you know you aren't in a good place is a whole other thing :/

@aboutellesbabe, exactly what I just said to @huntersmommy101 haha. Yes! I don't understand how that's justifiable. It's another human being. Not a houseplant.

i know. i felt bad... me and my fiance aren't that well off but we planned for our little man when we knew we would could do it ourselves. you will need help sometimes which is fine but when can you can't survive without government assistance than you need to use birth control. babies aren't cheap.