no problem. watch YouTube videos of what other mommas out in their hospital bags, especially moms on their second/ more because they will have essential items and not go over board.
oh don't worry about ranting. its just your mind wanting everything to be just right. For yourself; comfy to go home clothes, travel size bath products. The hospital will have everything you need for your after care for your vag. For baby; onsies in size nb and 0-3 (you never know how big he will be), socks, mitts so he doesn't scratch himself, blanket, receiving blanket. They will give you diapers and wipes while your there.
he is my first and I am freaking out cuz I have 2 and a half months to go like I don't know what I should put in my to go bag @tiffrae sorry for my ranting
let's just say you have more on your registry than I do. it's my second boy but I have most big ticket items already and most clothes luckily because they will have birthdays within a month of each other