I wish i lived close to my family and friends i really miss them i feel like things like my daughter's first birthday would have been better with them because with my husbands family only my husband's sister and 2 cousins showed up and we invited a lot more people and because of how that turned out i told my husband i didn't want a baby shower cause i knew they would care even less about showing up and that is what happened and it just makes me miss my family and friends that live in Oregon i know i could've count on them more. But I'm still thankful for the people that did show up for these two important events.