I don't know what to do. My family is driving me up a wall. They wasn't there for my whole pregnancy and refused to help me when I was 39wks and broke down on the side of the road because I had chosen adoption for my little girl. My step mother and sister took the moment of cutting the cord from my SO and this was his very first child. When she came they became rude and my dad want as far to throw a fit an refuse to come in. My step mother told my SO its not right for me and him to give her up for adoption and its not fair to our family. I chose to keep her cause I bounded with her and my SO understands but he's still scared. His family agreed to care for her till we can adjust I visit her as soon as I wake till I go home for rest an take her to appointments. My family is constantly texting me guilt tripping me an went as far to insinuate that I was a bad mother. Now they are on Facebook saying they need special prayers. I'm not giving up on my girl I'm not working right now an her daddy is the only one with a job I want to get a job and steady pay before I bring her home. Is that so bad of me?
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you can get a pack and play she can sleep in that
I can't speak on your situation. You will do what's best for your situation. I just know nothing would keep me from having my baby at home with me unless she's in danger. Just be prepared for these other people to feel like they know what's best for her since she's been with them. And everyone else is going to judge you simply because they don't agree.
@queeneden, I go see her everyday the only time I'm away is when she's asleep for the night. I have everyone looking for a bed I want her with me as soon as possible its killing me
my house has zero stuff for her. where we dead set on adoption we didn't buy anything for her. his family has smaller grand babies in an out so we can't take their crib or things me and her dad buy her formula an things like that but I want to get her a bed before she comes home I don't want to roll on her in our bed and something happen to her I'd be lost @chela915
Your baby is missing valuable bonding time with you.
FTM problems...
So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It...
Not having a mom right now really fucking sucks. My birth mom is a POS and I refuse to let her be a part of my life. And my step mom is in my life daily but she's such a bitch and favors her sons and their wives over me so she's basically dead to me too! So annoyed I could cry for days. Fucking hormones! 😢
Just curious as to how a mother is so careless with her children that her 15 year old got pregnant and has 7 possibilities for the father .and one of the possibilities , is her STEP FATHER . WATCH. YOUR . KIDS.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
@queeneden, oh yea I've experienced that while I was in the hospital. but on a good note his cousin found a bassinet we can use so she's here with me now @victoriaaaron12 I was worried about her being on a large space .I think I over worry some times actually