FTM problems... So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It's making me sad. Like I wish I could quit my job and be home with her.
Just curious as to how a mother is so careless with her children that her 15 year old got pregnant and has 7 possibilities for the father .and one of the possibilities , is her STEP FATHER . WATCH. YOUR . KIDS.
Not having a mom right now really fucking sucks. My birth mom is a POS and I refuse to let her be a part of my life. And my step mom is in my life daily but she's such a bitch and favors her sons and their wives over me so she's basically dead to me too! So annoyed I could cry for days. Fucking hormones! 😢
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Chela·
why can't she stay with you ?
missing41user·
Мама троих детей
Your baby is missing valuable bonding time with you.
Emily·
Мама дочки-младенца
my house has zero stuff for her. where we dead set on adoption we didn't buy anything for her. his family has smaller grand babies in an out so we can't take their crib or things me and her dad buy her formula an things like that but I want to get her a bed before she comes home I don't want to roll on her in our bed and something happen to her I'd be lost @chela915
Emily·
Мама дочки-младенца
@queeneden, I go see her everyday the only time I'm away is when she's asleep for the night. I have everyone looking for a bed I want her with me as soon as possible its killing me
missing41user·
Мама троих детей
I can't speak on your situation. You will do what's best for your situation. I just know nothing would keep me from having my baby at home with me unless she's in danger. Just be prepared for these other people to feel like they know what's best for her since she's been with them. And everyone else is going to judge you simply because they don't agree.
missing238user·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)
you can get a pack and play she can sleep in that
Emily·
Мама дочки-младенца
@queeneden, oh yea I've experienced that while I was in the hospital. but on a good note his cousin found a bassinet we can use so she's here with me now @victoriaaaron12 I was worried about her being on a large space .I think I over worry some times actually