I'm over this, I can't handle my boyfriends ex anymore. she's now texting him threatening to kill…
I'm over this, I can't handle my boyfriends ex anymore. she's now texting him threatening to kill his whole family and hoping my baby dies. I cannot do this anymore, I'm very close to ending things with him to avoid the stress that the rest of my future will hold dealing with her crazy ass. I haven't even talked to the girl, they have a daughter together so they have to talk for that reason. understandably obviously. she's always said terrible things about me to my boyfriend but I haven't cared because I'm an adult her opinion doesn't matter. but wishing death on our family and my son that draws the line. I think she has SERIOUS mental issues to wish death upon anyone especially a child. it hurts me so bad.
Robbie·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
Umm... Threats shouldn't be allowed to go unhandled. :/ As far as ending things with him just because of her, is exactly what she wants and you'd still have to deal with her simply because your kids are siblings. Sometimes it really is hard just dealing with psychos but maybe her texts and threats should be turned in, who knows when she'll be serious enough to follow through?
missing201user·
I'd bring that shit up in court if I was him. get a restraining order on her ass.
cheyanne·
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@ilyric, I'm just so sick of hearing all the horrible things she says about us both and now my son... :( I just wanna move far away.. turning her in would just make her go even crazier I think if that's even possible. I'm just at a complete loss at what to do. it's sad to me how another pregnant person can wish death upon an unborn child it makes me sick
cheyanne·
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@jadestarlight, she always threatens to take him to court like ALL the time. he pays her monthly too it's not like he doesn't pay her so idk why she is like this. I wonder if this stuff would bite her in the ass if they went to court. but since she's the mom he feels like she will win because men rarely win
Robbie·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
I understand what you mean, but letting her continue is her bullying and manipulation in play because she knows no one will stand up to her. It's a situation that will have to be handled especially if she's acting that way around the daughter. As far as what you can do, corny suggestion but it does work... just pray for her, pray for understanding and tolerance, eventually things will get easier.
Robbie·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
Keep a record of the text messages, that's enough to get him full custody!
cheyanne·
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@ilyric, this is good to know actually, the stress of it all is getting to be too much. it's not good for kids to be around that stuff and I know my bf never says a bad thing about his daughters mom around her which I'm proud of him for that. it's just sad that adults act like that. sickening actually
missing201user·
it's showing mental instability. men can win its just a matter of documentation. he might not get full custody. but it would show cause for intervention that a parent mediator is needed. and that they need a child drop off with parents not being present at same time. knowing the law and your rights help. he should petition the court. he should call a father's advocacy lawyer and talk to him