It's almost an insult when your SO offers to pay your bestfriend to do his laundry and do the dishes.... I clean every…

Um yes she should do it for free!

@nevaehsmommy87, if she would get a job she wouldn't need money

@kasieerin, yes that would be good lol

we can't afford to support her and a baby.... he barely supports me alone... and me not having a job is even harder... since he paid bills and I bought everything for the house.... @nevaehsmommy87

Sounds like this situation could blow up eventually, I'd talk to them both about what the plan is before it's too late. :(

She should be working.

I told her last week she needed to get a job or she needed to go I love her she's my bestfriend but she's almost 19 and wants to play in the adult world she needs to act like an adult.. @indigenousmommy I'm almost 20 and granted I don't have a job but I'm also pregnant and my SO doesn't want me to have a job... that was an agreement between him and i... I also graduated from HS with my CNA license and she dropped out... nothing wrong with dropping out about she dropped out and became an alcoholic I worked and went to school I was living on my own my whole sr yr...

Sounds like she doesn't respect your wishes if she's taking money from your SO.

@indigenousmommy, I explained it to her and she understands but she knows how I feel so I told her she needs to get it together

That's good, I hope she does so it doesn't hurt your friendship.