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This might be a childish post but oh well:

This might be a childish post but oh well:

So I went through my boyfriend phone this morning and seen a text from his "best friend"

She text him "Goodnight boo 😘"

Idk what he wrote before that because that was the only message in the convo. He always deletes messages

But would I be wrong for checking her. I usually would just go on and do it without advice, but I'm trying to spare him his friend.

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xodreya

Andrea M.Мама дочки-младенца

if he's deleting his messages he is more then likely talking to her the way she's talking to him. so I suggest you check your man, I'm sure he's the bigger problem then it would be her. if it was me .. his shit would be packed and outside waiting for him . I have never wasted my breath on a Cheater but if you feel the need to.. then check him.

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youngg.mommyy

Vanessa AmorМама дочки-младенца

oh hell no lmao, i've had my own experiences i would've woken him up at the sight of the kissy face 😂👊, like no bitch, send that goodnight boo 😘 shit to someone that's single 😐

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dang_dridri

AdriannaВ ожидании первенца

Ohhh honey! First off I don't trust the whole female bestfriend bs from past experiences and seeing friends go through things with that as well and secondly MY man is not your boo? Thirdly, if they are just friends and are only having innocent conversations you would think he would want to keep the messages to prove you wrong if there ever came a time in which you did feel as if something was going on. They don't delete messages for nothing.

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lilfree16

Lily FreemanВ ожидании первенца

check him... only check her IF she knows that you guys are together.. hes hiding something so hes obviously giving her the floor.

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patty94

PatriciaМама дочки-младенца

oh no no hes hiding something if he's deleting txt especially if its a girl an shes calling him boo

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flower_princess

flower_princessМама сына-младенца

^^ same here I had my husband delete message between his coworker and him and I made him tell me why he deleted the messages between them

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emeliaday

EmilyВ ожидании первенца

I never delete text threads unless I don't talk to that person often or anymore. If he is deleting them I would presume he is hiding something - that was my experience.

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flower_princess

flower_princessМама сына-младенца

Girl no! If he has to delete messages he is hiding something !!!!

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