My husband thinks that me being a stay at home mom is an easy job, yet when he comes home he says "oh you didn't clean today" or "why is there no food made" not knowing that one of our boys was sick and wanted to be held or that our two year old kept making a mess and that's the reason it's a mess. Now with this third child on the way, I'll always love my children but it sucks because he doesn't really help he thinks feeding them and that's it he's going to lay himself on the couch and watch tv is enough when I can't even take a shower or eat because I've been busy with the kids. I hope with three kids he can change because I'm getting tired of it. It's making me feel depressed because it's like I can't ask for help or he'll start nagging about that he just got out of work and wants to relax.
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It really sucks when you have to go through that. I seen it happen before. Guys now in days need to mature. It piss me off.
@mommy_of_three, that should teach him a lesson.
@vitachka, yes I'm planning to do that today and turn my phone off just go to dinner with some friends
@pulamaxmama, yes I stopped working because he wouldn't help I would still stay up at night if my son was sick and go to work, but now it's like he's always complaining he's tired but if I complain he starts saying what are you tired of being home all day
Leave him with the kids for at least few hours on his day off. Hopefully that will teach him something.
even when i was working 3am shifts, it was always me taking care of the kids, and while I'm workinf he's blowing up my phone telling me to hurry up cause the kids are being naughty. 😒
Right? I seriously wish they'd understand.. he gets a day off, we don't. On his days off he can just sit on his video games all day.. Like when do we ever get a "day off.". 😒 We'd be lucky if we got to shower by the end of the day 😩
@kleeas1, yes I think that's what I'm going to do, plan a trip with some mommy friends and leave the guys alone to fend for themselves
Exactly but they just fail to understand and think that because they are out working we can just sit down and relax anytime we want and they can't, when most of the time my two year old doesn't want me sitting down but standing up or I'm walking my 5 month old around because he's fussy
You just take a long weekend to yourself and let him tend the kids. He will understand how hard it is in 1 hour of you being gone!! So sorry you're going through this. Stay at home moms need to feel appreciated
Same here! it's like i try my best to up keep and what not around the house, but it's hard when it's just you and two toddlers running around. 😑
@mommy_of_three, I know, mine says the same.. he always says "What do you do all day?" Like I'm not allowed to be tired. 😑 I wish I could just go out for a few hours, if only I had friends. 😩