How long should we wait to start trying for our second? I wasn't planning on it anytime soon, just looking for opinions.. I don't want them over 3 years apart though
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
missing268user·
hmm I know me and my SO are aiming for 2 years apart that way each child gets that time to get use to the other and still have time to be with both of us
Shannon 🌺💖·
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I know they say one year is good recovery for your body
Haylee·
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@hermommy, @shananaginsx . So probably when he turns 1?
Emma Rojek·
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im in kinda same boat as you altho i dont know if i want anymore or if i want a few more my son only three months right now so i have some time to think cuz i know i want to wait till after july 27th (my 21st bday) so i can have my first party night and drink once (idk right of passage ig) is that selfish???...anyways thats off topic i know i want to have all my kids 18 when im early fortys so i will be around to see grand children so i have 4-6years to have more children to keep in that time frame.
missing268user·
Yeah I would say start trying at 1 you never know how long it could take
Haylee·
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@freethemilkmakers, I was pregnant for my 21st and I still haven't drank since I had him and he's 2 months, I totally hung that life up and it feels great. I feel like he needs my attention and I need to spend as much time as I can with him because they get big so fast, I don't want to miss out on anything. I can have fun once he grows up lol that's the way I look at it
Haylee·
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@hermommy, that's the stressful part 😔 it took us a month to conceive with Camden but I'll be older for the next one too lol so you never know
missing268user·
@camdensmamma girl a month is good! But you have a point I'm sure you won't be much older but that could be a factor in it bodies change
Brittany·
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my personal opinion on when I plan to talk about having another one is around 5-6 months after. going to use my maternity leave to try to get back into school and I want to be at least one semester in and steadily going before we consider a second child but my hubby wants them as close to possible because he is older than me and has unreasonable doubts about being able to make more .-.