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Emily

Trying to get my husband to quit smoking before the baby arrives :( it's so frustrating because he swears he is trying,…

Trying to get my husband to quit smoking before the baby arrives :( it's so frustrating because he swears he is trying, but I haven't seen him slow down. I can't make him quit, but he knows I can't even stand to kiss him anymore it's so nasty.

Plus I read today that the likelihood of SIDS is increased by exposure to second hand smoke.... I know SIDS chances are so small but I just found out a family friends baby passed today after they found her unresponsive. He has to quit idk what I'll do if he doesn't

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matthewsmom

Emily

I thought that he would've had more incentive but it's like he just says I'm trying to get me to quit bitching. I love him but sometimes I wanna beat his ass lol @hellokarly

hellokarly

Killomi D.

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Ugh I'm sorry mama :( stupid cigarettes! Causing problems

matthewsmom

Emily

I honestly think he needs to quit cold turkey. No weening off, nothing like that because he will just go back to his ways. He smokes a half a pack a day which isn't a lot compared to some smokers but it's enough and it STINKS! I hate it so much. I don't want him holding our newborn baby with smoke in his beard, in his clothes or skin...

matthewsmom

Emily

I've tried everything I've begged, cried, pleaded... He blames his stressful work life. I know even if he says he will try it, he'll smoke behind my back at work. I don't think he really wants to quit to be honest but I don't want to give him an ultimatum @hellokarly :(

hellokarly

Killomi D.

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Damn! But he should give it a try again and get over the "it feels funny" because it is better for you and baby that way. What my man did was stopped cigs for three days then went on the vape because at that point he was just craving the nicotine so the want was strong than how it made him feel. He even had a cig a few days after due to stress and told me it made him feel disgusting, and that he never realized how horrible it made him smell and it has been strictly vape since. Ask him if he could do that because the say once you pass three days without a cig you should be good.

matthewsmom

Emily

He tried vaping. Spent so much money on different juices, tried different nicotine levels, different mods or whatever... He said it made him feel funny. :/ @jessmeyer716 @hellokarly

jessmeyer716

Jessica

Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (38 нед.)

I agree with @hellokarly try to get him to try vaping. its definitely a better alternative. Before I got preggo I used to work for a vape shop, and my hubby still works there. we both vape (I stopped during the pregnancy) and its so much better than cigarettes and better for a home with children. if you need more info about how to get started just msg me honey :)

hellokarly

Killomi D.

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You should try to get him to switch to vaping. I had the same issue with my man, he was sick of smelling like cigarette ass and didn't want that around the baby. And he has been smoking since he was like 13-14 years old, it has been over a month since he had a cig and lowered his nicotine intake on his vape. And it smells really good lol

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

It's very hard to quit smoking. I am such a pothead . idc what anyone say . but because of what happen before, I am…

It's very hard to quit smoking. I am such a pothead . idc what anyone say . but because of what happen before, I am trying so hard to quit. even thought my doc telling me it okay to continue, i just know it not okay for my baby . as I'm trying to quit, people around me include baby daddy is not helping by continue to smoke . smfh so frustrating. but I have to gain self control for my baby . I just have to. I be feeling so horrible like a horrible mom when I do continue but I know I can do this. I just hope I have support system though

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!