Sebastians mom is texting me all like "maybe once Xayden gets here your dad will decide to move to Tennessee so he can be closer to his grandson" and I'm just like I would never ask my father to just up and leave his life like that, let alone leave my mother's body behind like that. the home they both built together bc she wanted it and was sick. that for him to not be able to sit with her everyday at the cemetery and bring her flowers is apart of his daily life. I'd rather us just move back one day in the future or let my son visit in the summers. then she's like "whatever works for y'all. but don't ever underestimate the love for a grandparent and their grandchildren " and in my head I'm thinking okay lady. I don't see you rushing to pack up your shit to move to Florida so you can be with your 1st grandchild. so why put this into my head...
I see what she's doing. once again trying to guilt trip with some sort of sympathetic therapy to keep my ass in Tennessee so I can never go tf home, by using my son as the prize. I really think these people don't care about the fact I haven't seen my family in 2 years bc I've lived here and they do everything in their power to keep me from stepping foot in South Carolina just bc of Sebastian's mind mind you PAST with his father. in which let me say THEYRE BOTH PAST IT AND CLOSER THAN EVER! the boy wants to go back to South Carolina too. he's GROWN with his own family. I really am tired of this. so bc you can't get over his dad. but yet you're happily IN LOVE...why fight this fucking hard. why can't I be WITH MY family too? why can my son not get a chance to be around his other two grandfathers that live in SC? Im sorry. but I cannot stand it when people use my child as a guilt trip for THEIR past, and only want it to be convenient for them and no one else
I'm officially pissed off.
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well just try to stay calm too. I know it's hard but baby first. Hopefully talking about it helped a little @xbbycolletto. I would just ignore her for a while
exactly. just... I'm trying so hard not to blow up. I just stopped texting her once she said that. bc I promise me and her would be throwing hands if I was to say what I wanted to say to her @atw2016
She can't keep y'all here!!! She can stfu and get her airline game up. #fuck that . Let that man be a man! @xbbycolletto It's not fair that you can't see your family
@atw2016, exactly. she had the nerve to look at me one day and said "you'll never go back to South Carolina if I can help it. you can visit. but you'll never live there again. he's not allowed to move back there " uhh... lady he's 23 years old. pop your titty out his god damn mouth and let him be a fucking MAN
@scc2413, these people are fucking crazy If they think Imma stay here forever. I miss my friends and family. Sebastian misses his family down there too. his mom says family is everything, yet they're trying to keep me from mine so they can have their son. he's 23 years old. let the boy grow up and go out in life. he's too fucking sheltered and it pisses me off. he gets everything handed to him and that us NOT how I want my son growing up. I want him to know life is hard and you can be helped so much... but that you have to learn how to do it yourself. that's how I was raised. I can ask my dad for help. but that doesnt nesiscarily mean he CAN help me.
@xbbycolletto She sounds like it. Just reminds me of when me and Chris's mom fell out because she bitches to him about us burying our son at my mom's feet nstead of with her mom. Women who are used to getting their way like that are always that way. Only thing she should be worried about is being in that baby's life no matter what state he is in and let her son handle his own little family and stop bitching.
Lay your foot down girl! I know exactly what you're going through. My bfs grandma has said and done some really rude things to me and I don't even tell him anymore because he gets drug in the middle but it's like if you don't get your grandma in check, one of these days I will seriously flip on her and she'll actually have a reason not to like me because I promise I'll put her on blast and call her out on everything she's done that I left unspoken about to save his feelings and awkwardness between all of us.
@atw2016, she's so selfish. like.. how dare you even THINK about telling me to tell my father to leave behind my deceased mother like that! just for her own advantage. that angers me so much @scc2413 I'm at that point where I can't even say shit to my boyfriend about it because it puts him in the middle. but I find it very unfair they're expecting me to never be able to let me go home to visit or even move back one day. we both want to and I haven't seen my father in two years, except for once and that's bc we were down for Sebastian's grandmother's funeral. I got one day with my dad. I don't know who this lady thinks she is, but she will never keep me from going back home. ever. if I wanna go one day and pack my shit and move Home... my boyfriend has a choice to stay here or come with me. but I know one thing. my son will be coming with me wherever the fuck I go
My boyfriend mom and his grandma both tried to guilt us into staying closer to them. They even said we were stupid for moving and that if we left they'd never see the baby. Like I'm sorry it's not convenient for you anymore but my life nor my son's revolves around what you want. Needless to say, I left and told my boyfriend he could follow or stay there and he of course moved with me.
My boyfriend literally has no home training if that makes sense. Half of the things he does now like simple household things are because I make him do it or at least help out. It scares me how he thinks our son will be raised because the way he was raised is no where near how I want my son growing up. and even his mom and grandma try to give us parenting advice and I just sit there and in my mind I'm like okay grams, you failed at raising your daughter right who failed at raising my boyfriend right so please keep your advice to yourself. I'd rather take parenting advice from Brittney spears then either of them.