I feel bad that I just went off on my friend. She said, "He will come when he's ready" and "He's just not ready to come out yet", and I just lost my mind. She had her baby at 37 weeks and 1 day. I said, "I've gone 8 days past my due date. I can understand that you're just probably trying to help and make me feel better, but until you get sent home multiple times with notable contractions and your cervix isn't dilating at all and you're way past your due date, I kinda don't wanna hear it. You had your baby early. Congratulations. But I didn't. I'm not going to. I probably won't even have him the day I'm induced. Please stop telling me 'He'll come when he's ready' because he might not come on his own at all." Was I being bitchy for saying that? I mean...her experience and mine are completely different and I wish she would stop trying to relate to me when she doesn't.
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you poor thing :( ill say an extra prayer for you. hopefully the docs come to their senses. your comfortability should come first!! im so sorry i know that doesnt help but i really really am:/
@kaygee612, I'm so done. I'm in pain to where I want to cry and I don't want to have a VBAC and I'm not excited. I'm not having fun. You would think that doctors would take a mother's comfort into consideration when she's laboring but no. They don't. They don't even care.
sounds like the drs are about as worthless as a freakin melted ice cube. you would think they would take your past child into consideration and think "oh duh she had problems last time why dont we just go the same route this time" god some drs hospitals nurses etc piss me off. i thought they started inducing at 40 weeks. my dr wasnt going to induce me till i showed up in his office red faced humongously pregnant and huffing and puffing demanding to be induced because my contractions were like 4 mins apart lasting 45 seconds to a minute n a half and my cervix was still high and still not dialated. the next day i was able to go to the hospital and get induced. id talk to your doctor and tell him your concerns and if he/she doesnt listen MAKE EM LISTEN its your baby and your body. you call the shots
@kaygee612, I don't even think that they will induce me before I'm 42 weeks. That's my biggest problem. They see the contractions, they see him in position, but they expect my water to break or for my cervix to change and I'm just like "YOURE NOT LISTENING!" I wasn't able to labor with my daughter and laboring with my son is wearing me out
you had every right to be that way. everyone told me the same and i had my son 40+3 and i was in labor for 3 days before they induced me. i wanted to rip everyones face off that tried telling me itll happen when he was ready. no. itll happen when doctors pull their heads out of their asses and help out instead of sending you home. im sorry but coming from someone who had the similar experience as you, id be upset too. hang in there momma itll be okay just be positive for your lil one.
@kaygee612, thank you