So my boyfriend shoved me while I had our 3 week old son in my hands. Then he put him down only to continue to push me & pick me up on the bed! This hasn't been the first time he shoved and been abusive to me. I called the police & supposedly they got him, he's in the cop car handcuffed! Did I do the right thing by sending my son's father to jail??
yes absolutely. it always starts with pushing and shoving and it DOES escalate. my neighbor/ friend was just murdered in January due to a domestic violence dispute. he killed her in front of her 3 children and niece. stay safe girl.
I Think U Did With All This Crazy Mess Going On U Never Know What's On His Mind Keep U And Baby Safe....
that's definitely better for you and baby's environment. now you can relax and know that you and your baby is safe :)
Yes! it could get worse and if he's doing it to u who says he wouldn't do it to the baby. Sorry u went through that
I would say do what's best for u n ur children. I was in an abusive relationship for 2 years. I had hair pulled out, busted lips n everything. My last straw was when my son had to get stitches in his head. U can't let him do that to u it's not ok. If he does it once he'll do again. Just be careful n do what's best for those babies.
Before i got pregnant i went to a family members house her babys dads was hitting her i broke it up she called the police we all had to go to court he went to jail she said she was done never letting him come back and soon as he got released he moved back in and still lives there now lol and shes like im done he needs to go and im like umhm but i still support her but i just want women to know their worth and to know they have support around them and they should never have to go thru any of that so if you need an ear im here thats what this app is for .
Thats why i said you did what was right for you and your son as long as you stick to your guns and dont let him come back cause if not thats just putting yourself right back in the same position and this was all for nothing you get me ?
But bets believe before I called the police I fought him back I just wanted him to leave my apartment too and he wouldn't leave!
Well it's either I call the police or somebody was gon get hurt I'm from philly! I did what my first instinct told me to do to keep my 7 year old and my 3 week old safe! He can't feel that he can do whatever to me! He has to own up and pay for his actions! He called the police on me once LYING saying I pistol whipped him when he busted his lip playing basketball, was that cool? But I understand what you saying I'm not letting him come back me and my kids safety matter more this was the final straw, you don't shove me while I'm holding a baby I could've fell or dropped him. I'm not only standing up for me my sons too they deserve to feel safe!
I wouldnt have called the police personally thats just not the way i was raised. But if thats what you felt you had to do to keep yourself and your son safe then you did the right thing and im proud of you for standing up for yourself !!! but when he gets out if you let him come back and the samething happens then this whole thing was pointless ( thats what happens with most women) i wish you the best stay strong dont ever let anyone do that to you .
You did the right thing if you are actually done and are going to leave and be done