Hello Mommys. Im not sure where to turn to. I need some help. My babys dad gf keeps taking pics of my baby girl and no has a profile pic of her n my daughter. And she also keeps saying things like #mybabygirl or #iloveu
Than this afternoon I was told I needed to deal with it?! Like really?! My babys dad doesnt wanna get in the middle but he needs to step up n be a dad. but I understand he doesnt want drama...but Its getting to the point where I wanna beat this women....But I wont cuz I dont need to be in jail. Am I being way to over dramatic or Can I actually do anything?
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@39surp, what did u do about it? Im at lost of words.
My ex's gf did same. Posted pics on her fb of my kids and them and said My little family and the love of my life!!! My ex abused me soooo bad in every way! Pisses me off! Those are my kids not hers.
maybe you should have a conversation with her about it. so you can tell her uncomfortable it's making you feel. however it's important to place where your feeling are coming from. what types of emotions are fueling your anger?
what I've always said and continue to say, it takes a community to raise a child. I'm glad to hear that she's not treating your child like crap. but on the other hand I don't feel it's appropriate to expose young children to partners right away.. just because you never know how long two people will be together.
your feelings are 100% valid. good luck girl!
Im just like where u pregnant with my baby? Did u give Birth? I have heart problems as is so it pisses me off that she is doing this. I brushed it off a few times but no its getting out of hand. Apparently I didnt care when I was in a relationship....Um actually I did, I just didnt care enough to fight with her but now yesterday 'Telling me to deal with it' really set me off.
That would make me mad as hell , luckily my ex husbands gf respects that I'm her mother not her and would never cross the boundary , I would try talking to her about it first and then go from there
thank you ladies. but honestly I dont think I can tell her calmly but I will try. I was flipping out when I found out. I would go to jail for my baby
try to calmly tell her that you are not comfortable with her doing this. if she continues ask that he keep his child away from her the court gave him weekends not her she doesnt need to be around the child if she cannot respect you as the mothet
So i agree with u she needs to stop she's not her mom you are!
My fiancés son is almost 2, I've been around since before he was 1, me and her get along fine have no problems. However I never have yet posted a pic of just him or me and him! And we split the week in half with him. So I seem him just as much! I just think it's crossing the line and it's not needed on social media ya know.
He has to take her on the weekends....Court orders.
its disrespectful, I'll tell my bf (because you don't want to escalate anything with his gf) that either it stops and she respects what I say or you'll have to see ya child at my home only or outings including me only
@mom2591, I haven't done anything because I know they want me to be mad. Even if I say something their egos will just get bigger and they will keep doing shit like that anyways or even more to piss me off! So I act like I don't care and I just tell her I'm glad she's good to my kids. She can try all she wants but I will forever and always be their Mommy! Yes it hurts me and I admit it makes me jealous. She can never replace me. At least my kids won't see me cause drama or give them crap to bad mouth me in front of my kids.