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Jennifer Stough
Jennifer Stough
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)

Second rant for the day guys. I don't live at home. I have my own apartment, I pay my own bills. I'm also a single mom…

Second rant for the day guys. I don't live at home. I have my own apartment, I pay my own bills. I'm also a single mom and don't get any assistance from my ex husband or the government. Well, I'm constantly giving my parents money. Like, before any of us got our taxes, I gave them over $600 to help pay miscellaneous bills. They finally gave me about $400 of it back a few weeks ago (after they blew through their $10k in taxes. I had to wait until he got paid again.) Well they still owe me $240. If I had the money to not need it back I would just give it to them. But I already struggle as is, and now I'm on maternity leave, the money I have saved up is literally all I have until I go back to work. And its almost not enough to pay my bills for my leave- not even including groceries, diapers, formula, or the baby shower. I literally have about $200 to spare and I'm going to need it for groceries for my 5 year old and I. Well I gave them $20 the other day because they needed toilet paper. They come back with sodas and chips and no toilet paper. Now they are out and want another $20 to go buy toilet paper. 1- I don't even have toilet paper at my own apartment! I ran out before I came over here but I have flushable wet wipes for my son until I go buy more. and 2- I'm so sick of giving them money! They already owe me $240, now $260! I'm so damn stressed as is and I just want to scream at them that I can't keep taking care of them but I know it will be the next world war and cause so much family drama.

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babyreeves

Jennifer Stough

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)

I don't want to hurt their feelings. but I'm really starting to feel used and I'm frustrated shitless by the fact that after getting their taxes, they still need to borrow money!

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bsb0093

Brendalyn Moore

Start saying no. Cause they feel like they can use you and get whatever out of you

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babyreeves

Jennifer Stough

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)

I just know that if it weren't for me theyd have to go without stuff and it makes me feel so bad. @bsb0093

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bottomsd520

Delaney

I wouldn't feel bad because pretty soon you're going to end up going without stuff. you gotta think about yourself in that :/ sorry you are going through that

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babyreeves

Jennifer Stough

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)

I know. They've pretty much always been there for me when I need them too, though, so it's just really a damn if I do damn if I don't situation! ughhh @bottomsd520

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bsb0093

Brendalyn Moore

They need to manage their money a little better try to talk them into them giving you like 100 each paycheck they get and save it and when they say they need something then you go get it with the money they gave to you and take it to them instead of giving them the money cause then they will use it on what they want and not what they need

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It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me…

It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

Stupid stuff you've done

Stupid stuff you've done I feel like a huge idiot!! I wasn't paying attention and backed into my garage door as it was opening. I shattered my Honda Odyssey back window!! I'm so upset! I should have been paying more attention. Now I have to shell out our vacation money have it fixed! I feel so dumb!