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ok so I have a 3 yr old and I want to put him in day care while I go work for at least 3 day a week maybe 4 I'm…

ok so I have a 3 yr old and I want to put him in day care while I go work for at least 3 day a week maybe 4 I'm currently preggo 14 weeks but tired of being home all day we do nothing but clean and cook and we in bed all the time I'm tired of the same routine everyday so I decided to.lut him in day care so he can also distrac him self from being home all day,but my mom thinks that am like a bad mother if I do that she said like why am I having kids if I'm not gonna take care of them makes me feel bad about it :( I feel like a bad mom for doing it is is bad?

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haidensmommy021512

LindsayМама дочки (4 года)

Yea sometimes u need a break but he also may need a break from u so he can play w other kids and learn too it won't hurt him just make him smarter

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geraldin

geraldin

@haidensmommy021512, right I think kids he's age need to explore plus we need to get out of the house before baby number two comes.... @tahtahme thank you it really made me feel better I've made my decision and he is going to school just part time 3 days a week we need it

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tahtahme

TahtahmeМама двоих (младенец)

as a teacher i think he will be fine if you have him do 3 or 4 half days at preschool if that's what you think is best! If you need that time, take it for sure!

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haidensmommy021512

LindsayМама дочки (4 года)

Your not a bad mom for wanting your son to be around other kids and not have to sit home all day. He's starting early and will learn more. Nothing wrong with that. If I could put my daughter into daycare instead of having her sit home all day with me I would I know she's going crazy and I'm sure your son would love to go to daycare.

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