I'm currently 28 weeks along. My boyfriend lives with me and my 3 kids. House is full. We already need to move because with baby on the way we need anorher room. Well a couple weeks ago my man's half sister he barely knows who live in another state lost custody to her 4 month old baby. There is no other family but my guy. So they contacted us to see if we will foster her. How can we say no? But I'm SO stressed because we are already expecting in our little place as is. Then on top of it all. My man's son who is 14 has a bad attitude and cursed out his step dad. Got kicked out to our place!!!! I can't say no that his son isn't welcomed here. But now I am soooooooo highly stressed out. We have the process already for the niece. But I'm not sure if its a good idea anymore. I stay at home and I honestly dont know if I can deal with all this. His son has anger issues and the niece we might foster is a baby that was born wirh drugs in her system. I dont know how to handle all this. Am I over reacting because of my hormones or is it actually a big isssue like how I feel it is?
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Is there a way you can talk to the step dad and explain your situation? Tell him that you want to be able help, you just cannot fit another person in that house and it is extremely stressful for you.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
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