got the longest message on fb saying I don't respect myself because I encourage my boyfriend to masturbate and watch…

omg theres nothing wrong with that in my opinion people just need to worry about their own lives..

preach! personally my man isn't into porn, it makes him uncomfortable BUT I'd rather him watch it then cheat.

@navywifej, thank you! I just can't when people do that to me. as If my relationship and our trust in each other is like everyone else's. it's like go have several seats

@hermommy, like I keep saying. I even chose the video for Sebastian to watch.

personally my husband and I don't watch porn or masturbate as it does nothing for us. it does make me insecure and we do consider porn cheating as its deriving sexual pleasure from another individual but to each their own man.

I like porn, we watch it together I don't see anything wrong with a man watching porn

lol same here we're going on 4 years together he knows if I'm not in the mood he has to take care of himself I'd much rather him do that than go out looking for somewhere else

lol some women are just insecure, the porn stars are slutty and most men don't want that... like damn it's just entertainment.

smh people who have a problem with porn are the insecure ones

@mrshamilton830, I mean.. what else do we think they were doing before they met us? 😂😂

@aek91, yes girl! preach!

In my case I allow my boyfriend watch porn whenever he feels like it, its not like he's ever gonna actually have sex with the girls and I physically can't have sex with him until after the baby is here and I'm healed completely. I feel as a girlfriend its my "duty" to please him and get him off in any way he can so if that means watching 30 minutes of some girl finger herself is gonna get him off then go for it.! People need to stay outta other peoples business and worry about themselves. smh

@kaliyahsmommy, 👏👏 besides... I learn some pretty awesome stuff from watching, sometimes. gotta change the game up when it's been the same for so long. 😂

my baby daddy watch porn with white girls in it that's just his thing I don't see nun wrong wit it @xbbycolletto

Entertainment it is 😂 especially when they do something and in just like 😱😱😱is that even possible? How is the possible? And my boyfriend just laughs at me, because I'm trying to figure out its possible to do some of the things they do 😂😂

yesss lmao @aydans.mommy . be looking like how she do that ?! daaaaamn 😂😂😂

@rainbowbaby2015, that's exactly what mine is gonna be doing while I go through that period of not being able to have sex after the baby gets here. 6 weeks is a long time without getting some. better for him to just beat It out to something hot, than to go out and find something infested.

Exactly!

but it's also OK not to like porn or to think of it as cheating. it just makes me and hubby uncomfortable to watch other people doing those things.

@babylanders, hey white girls be getting it. they're little freaks too!

no for real girl I be watching all the time trying to learn some new freaky shit them girls don't play 😂😂😂 I love porn idgaf if he watch it ima watch it too and be like oh you like that okay mental note ima try that lmao @xbbycolletto

@aydans.mommy, YES. and it's hilarious when it happens to me cause I'll be like "okay..soo.. I may be down to try that. let's try that"

@kaliyahsmommy, PREACH! I do it all the time when he's at work at night too. then when I am in the mood and if it's possible. I try the stuff out and he'll be like. where did THIS come from?!

I honestly have to say if it wasn't for porn my sex life would probably be boring lmao doing the same repetitive shit. shout out to the makers of porn y'all the real MVPs😂😂👏

@lakilucid, like I said. I can't knock people for how they are if it's a mutual feeling between the couple. but in my opinion cheating is when you physically are with someone who is not your significant other. but when people get to telling me I don't respect myself because I allow him to take care of his needs because I'm just not down to duck 24/7, is when I get annoyed.

there ain't shit wrong with porn or masterbating

@kaliyahsmommy, forreal. like.. my sex life would be too damn boring without porn to help me get some ideas. and it shows when a man gets tired of the same 3 positions too. I gotta keep my man on his toes. there's always something new going on if we're in one of those "fuck" moods. now when we want it to be slow and love making. that's a whole different story. that's all about the passion we both got towards each other

😂😂😂I use to want to try it and we would try it and I'm like "babe it didn't look this damn hard and complicated!" 😂😂😂 some of the things tho I'm just like she must've been practicing or went to school to learn that cuz daaaaaaaamn that's some complicated shit there😂😂 it's like an education video @kaliyahsmommy @xbbycolletto

yes ! exactly don't need no help wit the passionate portion but I don't be always wanting that sometimes u need that spontaneous where tf u learn how to do that shit sex lmao. 😂

@aydans.mommy, Right? I swear I be looking at porn like its education. 😂😂 some of the stuff I can't do cause I'm pregnant af. but soon as I get done with that 6 week period of no sex after my son is born? oh it's on. everything I haven't been able to do... will be done. 😂

@kaliyahsmommy, preach bebe ❤ preach! 🙌

yasssss I'm a lil stiff so when he be trying that new shit I be like hold up I can't do that my belly in the way @xbbycolletto

i see nothing wrong with letting your man watch porn they have no rite to say anything to you. hell i watch it and so does my bf when i cant give him any which is when he is out of town working but you ignore those people sweetie

@babylanders, yes girl. were only sticking with 3 positions right now bc of how far along I am. and he makes the best of them too. Just can't move the way I could 3 months ago! 😂

Know what I tell my husband? If he's horny and needs it, go ahead. He knows where the computer or his phone is and he has hands. Porn for him is not "omg this woman is so hot" it's purely for stimulation. He's not going to cheat on me because of it. And I definitely don't respect myself any less!