I decided not to have my BF around my family because his parents have so much negative things to say about them (even…

I decided not to have my BF around my family because his parents have so much negative things to say about them (even though they have never physically met any of them) his mom has had 2 over dramatic fits with my dad over the phone, she claims he told her to "shut up" but I was on 3 way with them and I didn't hear him say anything. Now she feels my dad owes her an apology and her husband wants to "have words with my dad about the way he talked to his wife". The second time they talked she went off again talking about a bunch of meaningless shit (excuse my French) trying to make herself look good and saying my dad should be an advocate to how good she is to me to the rest of my family. At my baby shower she refused to go because my BF got sick and his dad said he doesn't do baby showers and wasn't gonna go unless his son was there, and she's scared to go anywhere without her husband. She sent my BF's younger siblings and I thought everything was fine until we got back. Her son told her people were talking about her, rolling their eyes, and my family is dirty. Her daughter showed her a video of me opening gifts and she got mad that I called her "My BF's mom and family" she said I should acknowledge her as my mom in front of my family. I don't like being forced, I don't like how it's always some drama, and I don't like how she makes things all about her. I have a few more months until I get my place and can move out! Oh and she got mad that I took my baby's diaper bag and repacked it how I wanted (she originally packed it) I cant talk to my BF about the way I feel because he'll just go back and tell his mom "OMG THE WAY SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT YOU" he's a momma's boy. I'm tired of everything being about her.....I'm really starting to dislike her!