I hate that despite having a baby at 18, I managed to get a great job which turned into a great…
I hate that despite having a baby at 18, I managed to get a great job which turned into a great career, I have a 13 year old on honor roll every quarter, I will have my degree this summer, I have decent credit, my car is only 3 years old, after being told it would be extremely difficult to ever have another kid 13 years later I was blessed with another baby girl.BUT here I am 32 with no ring though I've been with my SO for 4 years it's been a very bumpy road I've done wrong he's done wrong but does that mean I have to sit around for years waiting on a ring? is it bad that I feel like by next year if he still don't feel I'm marriage material that I want to end the relationship? No I'm never gonna propose to any man but I feel like after 5 years if we not at the point of marriage then we just ain't the one for each other...
Alexandra McMillan·
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I totally understand where you're coming from, especially if you guys have a baby together....
GinaG·
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I mean we are not young nobody is perfect I feel like if we both love each other and continue to stay thru the good and the bad then how long do we need to wait to take the next logical step. I would like to be married before I'm 35 which is not that far away and he is going on 34 if I'm not the one I'm fine with that but I don't plan to be anyone's girlfriend for 10 years 5 is my max this will be my longest relationship ever we gotta do something soon @hellosweetie
Katerina Brown·
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IMHO if the end goal for the relationship isn't to marry and grow old together than whats the point in wasting years on it? I mean that's why we stay with some one for a long time is because we want to spend forever with them loving them unconditionally and singularly. I know marriage isn't for everyone but if one person whant it and the other is against it than why waste time on a dead end road when there is someone out there who will love you they way you deserve and want to be loved.
GinaG·
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right!!! @katt18
newmommy72816·
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i think you should tell him what you want and that puts the ball in his court so one way or another you'll be able to decide what to do
GinaG·
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that's a good idea the only reason I haven't made such a big issue is because we have had our shares of ups and downs so it's not like we are ready to get married next month or even 6 months but at the same time if it's not on the table then it probably won't be on the table in another year or two so it's like at that point we both wasting each other time so I guess I need to put it out there anyway @newmommy72816
newmommy72816·
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i understand regardless of the ups and downs there's some sort of love there since yall been together so long but working towards marriage should be part of the plan even if you're engaged that puts you a step closer
GinaG·
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true! thanks for the insight @newmommy72816
newmommy72816·
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no problem