I swear he is pissing me off even more he bitches about beening out all day then some girl calls his phone over and over I would think after no one answer you would get the freaking idea but no she kept call over 4 time so finally I answer the danm phone shwr wants him to come get her and her so called boyfriend to take the home because they could not get home he has Ben drinking and now she wants him to drive but if I say anything about wanting to drive he flips out the title to the car is in my name but I can't say a thing about it all that come out his month is it's my car I'm going to do what I want when I want will so can I I might just pack up and leave with my son till he gets his shit stright with the drinking he almost hit a car today because he get mad because of his sister baby daddy want to go places alday long what do you think I should do ? 💭💭💭💭💭💭💭
He's even gone to counseling and takes meds to help him he also finally admitted this year he has issues that need to be dealt with for sake of the family and to keep family together
sounds like he is also very controlling I would leave till he gets things straight otherwise things can get worse and since car is in your name you can take it for its not his. my husband has quite of bit of issues but tries very hard to control them but he would never act messed up in front of the kids or others and does his best for the family and does. what's best for the family
I know it's really hard but I would leave him until he can show that he changed, like for instant going to rehab and sticking to it. if he cared enough for you and yalls child he wouldn't be doing what he's doing in the first place. I'd something doesn't change now it could get worse, and you don't need your child(ren) around that.
I'm sorry you are going through this :( have you ever though of maybe an intervention of some kind? Maybe he needs something that extreme where his family and friends all tell him he's fucking up his life and needs to stop drinking. My SO is an addict so I know what it's lien to have to deal with all of that extra stuff. It's definitely hard :/ if you ever need to talk I'm here!
he not eating or sleeping stay gone after work smelling like liquor at work he going to lose his job but he don't give a shit he was messed up when I was at the hospital having our son my mom smelled it
he don't care his dad keeps say he hitting rock bottom I think it'd going to take him going to jail or rehab to fix it
I would have a serious talk with him. He needs to make a change or you're gone. His behavior is dangerous driving drunk really? I only say this because my boyfriends dad was an alcoholic (now recovering) but it negatively impacted him so much. My bf got heavy into abusing alcohol and other drugs because subconsciously he was thinking its normal because his dad did it. Plus if he's always yelling and angry that kind of stress isn't good for you or your son. My bf recently got a wake up call that made him change for real, but i know and he knew if he hadnt ida left him.
he wants help but does not know how to ask for it he keeps saying it but o think he is scared because he keep saying I think you don't love me anymore and stuff I'm starting not to love him