My mother in law actually told me not to be brave when I told her I wanted to go all natural with no drugs or…
My mother in law actually told me not to be brave when I told her I wanted to go all natural with no drugs or anything.....Like what does that even mean? How am I supposed to take that? I almost started crying....It's what's best for baby and after 5 years of trying I don't wanna risk a damn thing.....
missing329user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
There are alternative meds you can get in place of the epidural. It's very very difficult to have a natural birth.
Felicia·
@m.bullock, I know it's hard, but I want the experience and if I'm being honest I like pain....all the drugs I've looked into have some adverse effects or something to them I don't like....but for her to say that to me like I'm not trying to be brave, it's just what I feel is best and what I want to do. ...
missing329user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I don't think anybody could ever actually like labor pain, no matter how much you like pain. Once you go through it, you'll understand. It can be done though. It's just not something to take lightly. A lot of women (my mom included 😂) decide to go natural and then reaching the end they want the medicine and have to go through excruciating pain because it's too late for it. You have plenty of time to think it through though.
Samantha·
Мама сына (5 лет)
I'm totally with you!! you can do it!! I'm determined to do birth and labor naturally this time around! no medical interventions. this is what our bodies were designed to do, it's a beautiful thing. watch "the business of being born" on Netflix ASAP! you will love it
Felicia·
@sammiesteeez, that was my biggest push! I was on the fence before watching ....then I did more research and made my final decision! :) I believe in myself and I just wish people wouldn't have their negative comments about it and tell us not to be brave.....I found that insulting! but oh well....life will go on
Samantha·
Мама сына (5 лет)
I definitely believe everyone should respect everyone else's personal decisions ☺️ We got this!!