So, my fiance says that he feels like I want to have a baby more than I want to be with him. I'm at a total loss for words. I guess it's just time to give up on trying to be a mommy. he even said that if there was something wrong with on of us that's keeping us from having a baby that he's not worried about it. I guess he really don't want it as much as I do.
My boyfriend a I went through this, I got so depressed after months of trying and didn't want to have sex anymore and we just fought everyday. We took a break from each other and then when we felt ready went on a vacation and I got pregnant that weekend. Sometimes you just have to take a breather from trying and just love.
just focus on the relationship , and bettering yourself it will happen so unexpectedly !
The relationship can be a really helpful foundation for your baby. You only have your child for 18 years, but if you want, you can have your boyfriend for a lifetime. Learning how to strengthen your relationship will help you in all areas of your life, so it might be worth it to you to focus on. Right after I got pregnant (after 4 years of allowing conception) my partner said he wanted an abortion for the first few months. His ego was being threatened. He said he felt like I was abandoning him. I decided to respond as if my partner was my first child who was jealous of a new baby. I insisted he see a cognitive behavioral therapist. I helped him figure out what his unmet needs were. I definitely had moments where I didn't know if he would ever stay in the relationship. I focused on getting my needs met. Once he got his unmet needs met (new anxiety & depression medication that took a while to kick in, a job he liked) he pushed past his fears and has fully embraced the pregnancy & is back to his adorable, loving self.