First post on here is going to be a little dramatic!
I'm 35 weeks and 7 days, so tomorrow I will be 36 weeks. I currently live with my baby's daddy, and have lived with him for about two years. I previously found out he has been "Sexting" another female for the past month and has done this the year before. Just a bit of info into our journey, we met in Dallas Tx. Both from the same hometown, Cibolo Tx, which we recently moved back too. I gave up the life I had made there to move back here so he can better his career and so we could both be closer to family with the little one on the way.
I've forgiven him the first time, and was promised a change. Obviously the promise was broken, and I feel stuck with the baby being so close and me recently moving. I'm just looking for a little insight from someone who might have dealt with the same situation.
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I've been threw that situation before yes it does hurt when they promise you a change over and over again I had went threw the same thing i actually had called it off and moved on he then realized it was to late but after awhile we worked it out and made sure he changed before we actually got back together now we have 3 kids together but I always felt like they just lose some attraction because of the pregnancy that's how I felt
I'm just like you with the guy part. It hurts so much when you think they have change and then you see it again and it breaks your heart.
No offense taken! Thank you for the advice, any advice is good at this point. Just trying to figure out all the thoughts running around in my mind!
I'm sorry you are going through this btw :/ guys can be such jerks
I guess it just comes down to whether or not you can see yourself with this person for the rest of your life. Are you willing to put up with his shit in the future? If the answer is yes, you should stay. If it is no, move on with your life darling because you deserve better than that! Don't feel stuck just because you have a baby with him. You can start fresh with a baby, people do it all the time. I hope I'm not in any way offending you! Just trying to help! Do what is best you and what will make you the happiest in your life! If you need to move, move. Don't let him hold you back. I know it's easier said than done, I just want you to be happy!! Happy mommy=happy baby :)
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I struggle with the same sort of issue, and I think he really has stopped this time but it is so hard for me to trust anyone. Plus these hormones are really amping up my insecurities. it's so hard because I'm stuck between not wanting to drive him away and being ready to leave if he can't prove he's changed. That probably doesn't help you much, sorry but you aren't alone!