I can't do this!!! I started working and my husband watching the baby in morning while I work than when I get home he goes to work. The problem is he is a heavy sleeper and doesn't hear the baby cry. I can't concentrate at work thinking about it. I call him multiple times and he doesn't hear the phone. I can't do this. I'm crying at work. I need a work at home job. I need to be home. I will have to quit! His a great father but there nothing like a mother love and instinct!!!
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@embersandash, thanks its so hard. @id9564547 his a heavy sleeper he doesn't hear anything most of the time. I'm just worry God forbid something happens to her and he won't hear her cry. we doing the crying out method when she goes to bed. But I also don't want her to starve and miss a feeding. I'm just so concern but I know God hears my prayers.
I hear your fear that the baby night not get what it needs. What are you afraid of happening if you're partner can't hear the baby? Many pediatricians recommend letting the baby cry for 10 minutes before seeing what they need so they learn to self soothe. Does your partner not hear the baby even when the baby is crying very loudly? Sometimes parents need the sleep more than the baby needs to be attended to. If the baby 's basic needs truly aren't being met, Could you get a baby monitor & put it in your partner 's room with the volume turned up so it wakes him up?
It's going to feel like that the first few days. It'll be oo
Okay, mommas I need to vent to someone please..
So my fiance goes to his Co workers house (female) at 1:30pm to leave for work, they work about 55 mins from home.. she doesn't have to be there till 3pm.. and he doesn't have to start till 4pm... they usually get off at 1:30am. Now they moved it to 2:00am.. (what he says.) He doesn't get home till 4:00am.... am I wrong for wondering why it takes so long for him to get home??? I want to mention something but I know he will get real defensive about...
I really don't understand the judgment between being a working mom or a stay at home mom. If you need to work, work. If not, don't. No need to degrade other women for doing the opposite of you. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Wow I can't leave for a couple hours to find clothes for work without my husband calling me freaking out cause Ben won't stop crying how's he going to handle me going to work he's bitched at me for months to get a job cause he won't so I do but yet he can't handle the kids I come home my house is trashed he let kids get into baby girls stuff and he never fed Ben besides trying to give him a bottle
Ladies, I'm so freaking excited and happy right now that I am UGLY crying at work !! My doctor just called me because he got my blood results back, baby is good and I'm having A BOYYYY!!! I cant believe after all I've been through I finally get my boy !!! Thank you Jesus !!! I want to surprise Tim, any ideas of how I can surprise him for when he gets home from work tonight ??? Let's hear it.
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Of course making sure your baby is at a healthy weight is important. Occasionally missing a feeding is common among parents with multiple children. To prevent the baby from losing weight though, do you have a neighbor or college student babysitter who could check in a couple of days a week?