I've noticed that I've become so cranky when I get home and I finally made a connection. I hate living with the In Laws. I can't do it anymore. I'm sad/moody all the time now. I don't remember what it was like to be cheerful except for when I'm with my son. but I'm coming to my ropes end. Worse part of it all my husband has no wishes to leave, the longer he can put off leaving the happier he is and believe me I've brought it up and he has no plans to leave anytime soon. I'm so unhappy ya gotten to the point that I think about packing my stuff and leaving with my son. Hate my way of thinking...
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that's not right tho because if he keeps dismissing you then he's plain selfish. I wouldn't tell you to leave over something like that because I don't know your relationship, but tell him you want to have a serious talk and lay it all out there for him and be honest. whenever my mil causes an argument between my husband and I I'm completely honest even if I sound like a bitch. sometimes it gets to the point where I have to cry and act like a crazy bitch for my mil to stop for awhile and for my husband to get it thru his head how uncomfortable his mom makes it here. she literally calls him for everything that I do that she doesn't agree with(giving my sons baths while having a fever, putting them on a schedule) and he just listens to her causing a fight between us. so tell him like it is.
@kelseys, I keep dropping hints that it's time but he basically ignores each one and shrugs it off especially when I tell him I don't feel comfortable living here. he just goes "what reason would you hav not to feel comfortable?" um these aren't my parents, your mom and I have had drama before and it bothers me how much the cuss around my son. but I feel you. if we ever move out my MIL won't be invited over much that's for sure.
if you guys are financially stable then he should move out. he shouldn't put you in that type of situation where you feel that way. and honestly once you have a family of your own, you shouldn't be with your parents unless money is short, sickness, ect. its not fair to you to be there. I hate living with my MIL. I'm so miserable and don't know what it feels like to be happy anymore because of her. its so uncomfortable here. but we'll be out in a few months, and I don't plan on being around her or her being at my house.
@kelseys, thank you! will do! I'm glad you're moving out because all of that sounds ridiculous. my MIL is crazy but yours is on a whole different level haha!