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I'm so frustrated that I'm the only one that really does anything for our daughter.. He took 3 weeks off to "help" with…

I'm so frustrated that I'm the only one that really does anything for our daughter.. He took 3 weeks off to "help" with her and hasn't done anything... I understand that he's never been around a new born and doesn't know what to do but I've never had my own baby and you have to learn sometimes... Like I've literally slept maybe 5 hours since the night BEFORE we had our daughter.. That was the 10th... But yet he sleeps ATLEAST 6 hours a night if not more. I stay up with her.. I feed her.. I change her diapers and get her and everything ready to leave when we go somewhere... Like how can you just fall asleep sitting up with your phone in your hand bc your so tired... But yet I'm still taking care of our beautiful daughter running on 45 mins of sleep last night. In so much pain from ripping I literally have to sit on a donut everywhere but yet he's tired... Like I feel obligated to do all these things for our daughter she's such a blessing... It's a blessing to take care of her.. Why doesn't he feel the same way??

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wrd2016

JackieМама дочки-младенца

Hasnt*** not had lol

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wrd2016

JackieМама дочки-младенца

@firstone, @maybaby2016 I really want to do that but then I think do I really trust him alone with her anyways?? Like I said before she was born Wednesday he had never held a newborn ever and was even afraid to hold her but I'm just having a hard time caring how nervous he is bc I'm feeling the same way if not worse!! I can barely walk bc my whole LEGS are swollen not just my feet, and my stitches feel like they are ripping open bc I'm walking and doing too much.. He has changed her diaper yet or fed her or changed her clothes or stayed up at night and I'm so irritated at him that after he sits there for so long watching me struggle and hearing her scream I just tell his ass to go to bed lol my mom helps me more with her then he does and yes she definitely senses that I'm upset and she just feels worse.. I love taking care of her more than anything but I'm exhausted and deserve some help he can only use the I'm nervous excuse for so long..

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maybaby2016

JackeeМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

I agree with @firstone leave him no choice but to help you. It isn't healthy for you to be feeling this way and when you're stressed your precious baby picks up on that. Explain to him how you feel, hopefully he will understand and see that he's being selfish. maybe he doesn't realize. you definitely need your sleep so you can be the best you can be.

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shandy69

ShandyМама троих детей

Have you tryed talking to him?

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firstone

TraceeВ ожидании первенца

You might have to put your foot down. Hand him the baby and go in another room and get some rest you deserve it. He will learn quickly how to hop in father mode. I mean that's what I would do!

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