Ok thank you ladies I did talk to her before and she said she isn't going to try to replace me I will talk to her about the pictures thou. Thanks ladies :)

They are getting married in November thou so it will be her step mom but I already told her and him that they better not try to replace me cuz I am her mom and that won't ever change!!!!

@sophialynn, I can completely understand. but the one thing you should remember. your daughter knows you're her mommy :) she knows you better than any woman on this earth! but I would ask maybe for them to tone down on taking pictures if they go picture crazy. because that DOES look bad in ways.

I'm sorry mama. hopefully this woman will ease your mind and will understand your point of view.

@xbbycolletto, she treats my daughter great. I just don't want to feel replaced is all. And @lakilucid my daughter just turned One

I think I'd be upset. but at the same time, if she's a good woman. and she takes care of your child when she's around out of respect for him, to me I feel like that means she has respect for you in a way as well. ya know? I'd rather my child be in pictures with someone who plays with them and treats them well versus around a monster who wouldn't take care of them period. but that's just me. you're absolutely entitled to be feel however it is you feel, though.

I would honestly sit him down and talk to him. its mighty disrespectful of you. how old is your daughter?

she isn't her mama and doesn't need to be involved.

I would be pissed.