doc said I need to be careful and not gain to much weight since I am big to start with 😕

You don't look big! I was a little over weight. They told me to try and gain around 20. I'm 32 weeks and gained around 9 lbs so far.

I was told that I was obese & that I should only gain 15-20 pds & so far I've only gained 1pd & 33wks 4days

my doctor just told me I'm gaining to much weight : ( I gained 20lbs already. I'm 25 weeks and 4 days.

my only advice would be to just do your best n try to eat healthy