wow... so being up to date on your son now interferes with your job? god forbid you ask them if it's okay to take me to…

He can get on FMLA for those type of things and even for when you go into labor. Thats what my boyfriend did.

@lakilucid, thank you for that. like I said the world doesn't need to know what he uses on his paychecks on. but I do have the right to see this situation unfair. he cant even try to compromise. I put up too much with some of the stuff he does. but this is not right and even his mother and everyone else finds this very immature on His behald

@xbbycolletto, sorry about that mama. can't stand a rude bitch having her nose in another business when they literally know Jack shit. he's being selfish. end of story.

@pearson7, seriously? are you like having a hormonal fit or something? if you have nothing nice to say keep your damn mouth shut. smfh. maybe you can afford to miss an appointment but you don't know mamas situation. you don't live with her. I was high risk and had to go to a Perinatologist and my obgyn every single week. I could not miss an appointment. unless you pay her bills kindly shut the fuck up. bye felicia.

@lakilucid, and the reason is pure selfish on his behalf. not mine. he fucked up by Missing to many days not me. I do my job and get his ass up in the mornings

block button. I'm not even dealing with it. people and their attitude today. let me make this very clear. unless you personally know WTF HIS money goes to. it ain't my money but HIS money. dnt tell me I'm childish and selfish. because I can surely back up why This is an issue but it's not one the whole world needs to know about.

You honestly sound like a child. If he is trying to make money to support you & your child, you should be supportive. You were just saying that you had no food in your house. I'm sorry but missing a couple of appointments isn't that serious. Don't be so selfish. I get that you want him there & want him to be involved but look at the bigger picture.

that's beyond fucked. what the hell gets into men when their women are expecting?!

@mrshamilton830, that's exactly what Imma do. wanna know? bring your ass to an appointment to find out. it's your child too. there's no reason I should have to resort to asking his ex girlfriend who im somewhat friends with, to take me to my appointments

@xbbycolletto, well he's just being an ass hole! I understand if he just couldn't miss work because he would be in jeopardy of getting fired but to not even try to compromise is beyond selfish and I would not tell him anything that happens at the Dr either

that's what I was trying to tell him to do. and he still said no he isn't gonna do it. because being there isn't worth losing his job over. @mrshamilton830

@xbbycolletto, I think @mrshamilton830 mrsha meant you

I understand, but if he's paying the bills and with a new baby coming I'm pretty sure he's thinking about his financial responsibility, can you try to schedule your appointments around his schedule, or maybe on his lunch @hermommy

yep. he legit said "I'm not gonna lose my job by asking that" well fuck your job if they can't fucking understand you have a baby on the way In less than 6 weeks. like I said if I go into labor and he's at work. he better not show up to the hospital. or else Imma ask him did he lose his fucking job @hermommy

wow, his job is more important is that really the way hes acting?