I need advice me and my man lost our latest son in July and we want to have another baby but I am worried. I need to have a baby soon if I want a baby but I have no job. I am 25 and been a house wife so far but I kinda wanna make my own way in life just incase u never know. he is making good money and is in a growing job. he can take care of us alone but I am worried that he will get tired of it . we want to have 4 kids in total if God allows but my medical history makes it hard I won't be able to work at all when pregnant and we have to wait at least one year in between to have another baby. I need to get started on the kids and doing the math I feel like if I get a job right know and try to get pregnant I will look bad for getting into a job and having to leave right any month because I got pregnant .. what do I do any one have been truth this that can help .