Such a precious moment. Even though my 2 yr old isn't verbal I know he is excited for Andrew to get here. He's been more attached to my hip and hugs my belly and give it a kiss. I think spending time with his cousin Addison he's getting the idea we will have a baby here soon. It warmed my heart when he tried holding addy. Gonna have to keep an eye on Aj lol.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Biggest Baby on BB I know I don't have the biggest baby here but I know he's right up there.
My husband is telling my son that he's losing all of his toys and pretty much everything else that he gets for Christmas and that he is the only one that gets to say when he is ”good enough” to get them back one by one. He told my son that I don't get a say at all for it. We were to get stocking stuffers and presents for my son and our son a few days ago and it's ALL TOYS which I didn't get much say in for either of them either. Before anyone starts attacking me for saying MY SON and OUR SON in thing it for a reason. I have made multiple posts about the problems I have been having lately. I already know what I need to do about it. I just don't have the money for it. We have four christmas’s this year and he's saying my son won't see anything from any of them. I haven't told him that my parents are getting them something too. I've been in the bathroom for less than 5 minutes and he came in asking if I was okay because ”ive been in here for a while” 🙄 I made an excuse.
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daughter on my own, he plans to continue to come back only once a month even when she is born and it really scares me, even though I know we will need the money since I won't be working, I still feel like I'm going to be alone raising our daughter, when we talk about it all he has to say is he doesn't see any other way, but he's never lived here, let alone had a job here, and I know of so many places where he could get a job easily when he's here for one of his monthly visits and he just keeps saying that he can't quit his job and move here without having a stable job, and I keep telling him he can,find a job before he quits this one, but yet he's not even trying to find a job when he's here, he hasnt researched job openings or called anywhere, sometimes I feel like he's just comfortable with what is happening and it really hurts me to think about my daughter not having him here, and raising her alone, for one he's never been around a baby, doesnt have a clue how to raise one, and has never even HELD a baby, so I feel like if he only comes back once a month then he's never going to learn how to help with her, let alone know her, and her recognize him when he is here... every time we talk about it, it just turns into an argument and I'm to the point where I feel like I'm wasting my breathe... I just really don't know what to do, I'm scared, and need help and I feel like he doesn't wanna risk anything by moving here when I really need him. am I overreacting??? btw don't get me wrong, I'm beyond grateful for him, with everything he does, and all the financial support he provides, but I've never been "taken care of" (for lack of better words) and I would rather work too, just to have him here to help me and be with his daughter and sometimes I feel like that's not an option to him... it's really depressing me and scaring me. don't be afraid to tell me if I sound like a spoiled bitch or something, I honestly need yalls HONEST OPINION. 😞
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
