My husband is telling my son that he's losing all of his toys and pretty much everything else that he gets for Christmas…

I would tell him "fuck you" im sorry but if thats your son well guess hes the one who as no saying in what u do !!!! He can fuck right off i hate people like him!!!

Not sure of your back story but your husband is bullying your son, who I’m assuming isn’t even 5 years old? Whatever the history is you need to step up and put a stop to that!! Are you seriously going to allow your child to have no Christmas gifts because your husband says he’s “not good enough”

Are you married/are both of your names on the paperwork where you live? I obviously don’t know the whole story but that’s sounds like abuse to me. Make a police report, change the locks and kick his ass out. Please always side with your babies. No child deserves this. Tell the police you don’t feel safe at home and I promise they’ll help you get the resources to get you and your babies in a safe environment. Enough is enough. Don’t let your kids be damaged by this asshole.

Ok and your staying with this pos why? Ppl like you make no sense excuse after excuses why they let men abuse them and there kids why post for attention and not fix the issue your kid will never forget this remember that 💯💯

HELL. FUCKING. NO.

Fuck this douche bag. You better buy your son WHATEVER you want as well as family and he can fucking piss off somewhere if he don’t like it. Fuck this guy. I could understand a statement of “if you don’t start behaving, Santa isn’t going to bring you the gifts he’s got special for you. He only brings it to good boys and girls” every parent pulls that line during Christmas 😂 I just recently used it when my girls were at each other’s alllll day and I told em he’s watching and he checks up.. so if you’re not good he’s gonna be sad and won’t stop here. But THIS is just terrible.

This broke my heart to read, no child should be bullied by a grown ass man, you as his mother need to stand up for him and tell your husband he will be getting present regardless of what he thinks! he isn’t even 5 he doesn’t understand. Protect your child and yourself and get out of this abusive relationship!

So what are you doing about it?

Fuck that!! You are your kids back bone! Don’t like him treat your child like that!! He isn’t even 5 yet this will screw him up mentally and emotionally!!

When I was 5-6 I wasn’t good enough for my step dad(honestly I didn’t do anything wrong) so he did take all my presents away and was “nice” enough to give me my stocking but he took everything out and put rocks and coal in it literally and nothing else and that literally was my Christmas while my sister and brother got to open all there stuff.. and when I think back for Christmas memories that’s the only thing that pops up in my head it will never leave me and trust me you don’t want your son to feel like that!!

You could have CpS in your life because of this...! If your child start talking about this man shit will start

Who lets a man a fuckin man bully their own child i dont care if u say ill be in the street if i say something, fuck would u let kids bully your kids i dont think so ... so this grown ass man should be told to

Shut the fuck up or leave ... man id do anything for my kids imagine how your son feels when his own mom cant protect him for his bully... that child abuse...!

Since you already know what you need to do I won't say it...but honestly being in a shelter and having my child happy and healthy would certainly trump whatever money issues I was having. Like others have said this is abuse. You need to get a back bone and tell him regardless of what he says your son will be getting his presents. My daughter isn't my husband's and if this bs was going on I would certainly be putting up a fight in order to defend my child. Whatever your son did is not the issue it's the POS that you're allowing to abuse your son with the issues...for the record it won't be long before he moves along to his bio kids too and then what the hell are you going to do. Stand up for yourself and your kids.

When my husband starts doing that like he makes all the decisions I let him do all the work that comes along with it. I tell him ok you wanna make all the decisions cool.... then everytime they get hungry I tell him "better feed your child he hungry" when he dirty "time to give him a bath" you wanna make all decisions you gonna do all the work. Point blank.

Okay, this guy needs his ass kicked. This is bordering on psychological abuse if he is singling out your son and all the other kids will get presents except him. I wouldn't go to any Christmas celebration your son isn't getting equal treatment at. You don't take Christmas away from a child like that, and you don't ever get a say over their own mother. The hell with this guy.

Hell no, I tell him to back tf up and that you do not agree. If you both are not meeting in the middle somewhere it’s not okay and he is CLEARLY treating your son like shit and I’m glad you’re seeing it and wanting to do something. Just because that’s not his bio son does not give him the okay to act that way nor treat him that way. I’d straight tell him no, he will get his gifts and that the kids are to be treated the same.

Not sure of your back story but your husband is bullying your son, who I’m assuming isn’t even 5 years old? Whatever the history is you need to step up and put a stop to that!! Are you seriously going to allow your child to have no Christmas gifts because your husband says he’s “not good enough”

Why are you letting him dictate everything? Fill me in.

I would tell him "fuck you" im sorry but if thats your son well guess hes the one who as no saying in what u do !!!! He can fuck right off i hate people like him!!!