My husband is telling my son that he's losing all of his toys and pretty much everything else that he gets for Christmas and that he is the only one that gets to say when he is ”good enough” to get them back one by one. He told my son that I don't get a say at all for it. We were to get stocking stuffers and presents for my son and our son a few days ago and it's ALL TOYS which I didn't get much say in for either of them either. Before anyone starts attacking me for saying MY SON and OUR SON in thing it for a reason. I have made multiple posts about the problems I have been having lately. I already know what I need to do about it. I just don't have the money for it. We have four christmas’s this year and he's saying my son won't see anything from any of them. I haven't told him that my parents are getting them something too. I've been in the bathroom for less than 5 minutes and he came in asking if I was okay because ”ive been in here for a while” 🙄 I made an excuse.
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Not sure of your back story but your husband is bullying your son, who I’m assuming isn’t even 5 years old? Whatever the history is you need to step up and put a stop to that!! Are you seriously going to allow your child to have no Christmas gifts because your husband says he’s “not good enough”
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Are you married/are both of your names on the paperwork where you live? I obviously don’t know the whole story but that’s sounds like abuse to me. Make a police report, change the locks and kick his ass out. Please always side with your babies. No child deserves this. Tell the police you don’t feel safe at home and I promise they’ll help you get the resources to get you and your babies in a safe environment. Enough is enough. Don’t let your kids be damaged by this asshole.
Ok and your staying with this pos why? Ppl like you make no sense excuse after excuses why they let men abuse them and there kids why post for attention and not fix the issue your kid will never forget this remember that 💯💯
She said she knows what she should be doing but as no money for it....... like dr phil always says if theres a but it means they dont give a shit and will do whats best for themselves
@travis9347, it don’t take money to leave someone trust me I’ve done it so she can screw her kid up all she wants smh sad excuse for parents 🤬🤬
HELL. FUCKING. NO.
Fuck this douche bag. You better buy your son WHATEVER you want as well as family and he can fucking piss off somewhere if he don’t like it. Fuck this guy. I could understand a statement of “if you don’t start behaving, Santa isn’t going to bring you the gifts he’s got special for you. He only brings it to good boys and girls” every parent pulls that line during Christmas 😂 I just recently used it when my girls were at each other’s alllll day and I told em he’s watching and he checks up.. so if you’re not good he’s gonna be sad and won’t stop here. But THIS is just terrible.
I say this to my kids also but on Christmas day even if the day before they weren't nice they will still open their gifts... they are children its normal to act up man we all did.....! It pisses me off honestly man i have my hubby who is strict and i rembed he told our oldest if you don't get your grades up you wont be getting a new tv for your room and guess what my son didn't get his grades up but his new tv is still wrapped up lollll because my hubby believes that Christmas should be one of kids best memories
@travis9347, absolutely agreed !! It’s a threat I never go through with like you said, that morning they could be acting up and I’m still not gonna take their stuff away. I love seeing their excitement and like you said, THEYRE KIDS. They’re gonna make tons of mistakes and act out or fight with their siblings. I’d be more concerned if they never did lol. It just helps you in the moment to maybe end a battle that’s happening lmao.
This broke my heart to read, no child should be bullied by a grown ass man, you as his mother need to stand up for him and tell your husband he will be getting present regardless of what he thinks! he isn’t even 5 he doesn’t understand. Protect your child and yourself and get out of this abusive relationship!
Fuck that!! You are your kids back bone! Don’t like him treat your child like that!! He isn’t even 5 yet this will screw him up mentally and emotionally!!
When I was 5-6 I wasn’t good enough for my step dad(honestly I didn’t do anything wrong) so he did take all my presents away and was “nice” enough to give me my stocking but he took everything out and put rocks and coal in it literally and nothing else and that literally was my Christmas while my sister and brother got to open all there stuff.. and when I think back for Christmas memories that’s the only thing that pops up in my head it will never leave me and trust me you don’t want your son to feel like that!!
You could have CpS in your life because of this...! If your child start talking about this man shit will start
It wouldn’t be the first time, looking at some previous posts he is known for this behavior
Who lets a man a fuckin man bully their own child i dont care if u say ill be in the street if i say something, fuck would u let kids bully your kids i dont think so ... so this grown ass man should be told to
Shut the fuck up or leave ... man id do anything for my kids imagine how your son feels when his own mom cant protect him for his bully... that child abuse...!
Since you already know what you need to do I won't say it...but honestly being in a shelter and having my child happy and healthy would certainly trump whatever money issues I was having. Like others have said this is abuse. You need to get a back bone and tell him regardless of what he says your son will be getting his presents. My daughter isn't my husband's and if this bs was going on I would certainly be putting up a fight in order to defend my child. Whatever your son did is not the issue it's the POS that you're allowing to abuse your son with the issues...for the record it won't be long before he moves along to his bio kids too and then what the hell are you going to do. Stand up for yourself and your kids.
When my husband starts doing that like he makes all the decisions I let him do all the work that comes along with it. I tell him ok you wanna make all the decisions cool.... then everytime they get hungry I tell him "better feed your child he hungry" when he dirty "time to give him a bath" you wanna make all decisions you gonna do all the work. Point blank.
Okay, this guy needs his ass kicked. This is bordering on psychological abuse if he is singling out your son and all the other kids will get presents except him. I wouldn't go to any Christmas celebration your son isn't getting equal treatment at. You don't take Christmas away from a child like that, and you don't ever get a say over their own mother. The hell with this guy.
This isn't borderline psychological abuse, it IS abuse. 😔😔
Hell no, I tell him to back tf up and that you do not agree. If you both are not meeting in the middle somewhere it’s not okay and he is CLEARLY treating your son like shit and I’m glad you’re seeing it and wanting to do something. Just because that’s not his bio son does not give him the okay to act that way nor treat him that way. I’d straight tell him no, he will get his gifts and that the kids are to be treated the same.
Not sure of your back story but your husband is bullying your son, who I’m assuming isn’t even 5 years old? Whatever the history is you need to step up and put a stop to that!! Are you seriously going to allow your child to have no Christmas gifts because your husband says he’s “not good enough”
She's not going to let their kids get gifts and not him. (I worded it that way for a reason because he does get treated differently than the husband's bio kids) Her husband does bully him though 😣
Why are you letting him dictate everything? Fill me in.
I would tell him "fuck you" im sorry but if thats your son well guess hes the one who as no saying in what u do !!!! He can fuck right off i hate people like him!!!
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I would tell him "fuck you" im sorry but if thats your son well guess hes the one who as no saying in what u do !!!! He can fuck right off i hate people like him!!!