I just finished reading a post about a woman having a sleeping baby. I always imagined you had a few minutes then they were just gone. I never thought about the fact that you spend time with that baby, get attached, then someone comes in and takes it away to either cremate or bury him/her. I never registered that part. When I read her words "they'll be in to get him for cremation in the morning after one last hug and a big kiss" I cried so hard. I get to hug and kiss my little man every day and hopefully the rest of his life. I couldn't imagine such pain. I honestly don't think I'd survive.
My heart and utmost respect goes out to any mommy who has had to say goodbye to their child.
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You give birth to the baby but it's born already passed away. It's just a way nicer term than saying the baby was born dead. They're just permanently sleeping.
My aunt carried my cousin full term. She went in to the hospital to have him and they found no heartbeat. She later wrote a book titled Good Grief. It is a complete devastation to lose a child. I still haven't healed from it.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
For Fun
With most of us in a sleep regression or exhausted from being working moms, or just plain bored I figured it would be fun to get a little game started... so who's up for 2 truths and a lie? It's easy.. you post 3 facts about yourself, 2 true and 1 lie and when you guess you post yours here's mine:
Also called a still birth.