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juliagail09
Henleis Mommy❤💜·Мама дочки (1 год)

So my child's father left me...

and I am going to start looking for a job.

my problem is...

1 I have no one I trust to watch my daughter...

2 I get bad anxiety and panic when I think of a stranger watching my baby....

what if something happened to her?

I don't know what to do or how to get over this.

what did I do?

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marikss
Mari·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

in Illinois its called Action for Children, maybe its the same in your area.

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marikss
Mari·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

the government helps pay for daycare. I did it while in high school and I didn't have to pay the person watching my son because it was covered. if it was daycare I woulve only had to pay $7-$20 a week depending on my hours. but its not just for people in high school. look into it.

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embersandash
Jess·Мама дочки-младенца

A lot of preschools have cameras in all the classrooms. At least ones where I live do (and the one I work at does). That should help you feel safer. Plus any good preschool won't mind you calling whenever to check on your baby or stopping by whenever to visit.

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firstbaby_girl
Jenna·Мама дочки (1 год)

Try getting assistance through your state so you can hire someone good. Try care.com to find a sitter

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mamavee_x2
Mama Vee 🌻·Мама сына (1 год)

I'm so sorry you are going through this :/ Like some have mentioned, maybe try working from home or find a daycare that runs through the state. Do some research & find what works best for you. good luck & hugs to you!!

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des_a_rayy
Desaray·Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)

Or if you have to do daycare try a daycare thats ran throught the state Id think those are better and I know they help families!

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momma1
Mariana·Мама сына-младенца

@juliagail09, how about watching kids in your home? that way you can also watch your kid and make money?

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des_a_rayy
Desaray·Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)

Maybe try a job that u can do at home or a daycare lol some daycares let u bring ur own kids? Food for thought??

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juliagail09
Henleis Mommy❤💜·Мама дочки (1 год)

nope none at all. my mom drinks and does drugs. and my sister has 2 kids and one on the way and works...I literally have no one. and my child's father doesn't even know how to reply to a damn text message and he never shows up when he says he's going too. so he's been pretty unreliable. idk what I'm going to do. like I literally start freaking out at the thought of putting her in a daycare or with a stranger... @des_a_rayy

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des_a_rayy
Desaray·Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)

You dont have any family who might be able too?

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