my husband and I have been on Rocky terms for about a month now I took and opportunity of going to see my grandma but…

my husband and I have been on Rocky terms for about a month now I took and opportunity of going to see my grandma but didn't tell my family at all and when my husband couldn't get a hold of me called my father who I really don't talk to especially my personal stuff well my father told me husband he knew nothing about me going to see my grandma and it's been hell since then and I see my husband point I should have been honest but how many of us felt overwhelmed with life lately?in a year I've went thru some much from finally having my dream job to having to quit cause of the pregnancy being independent and being a mom of two to a mom of three and now four over night it just all balled up then with the in laws to family drama and putting there input into our child life I just wanted to break. so now me and him are at war he hurt me by talking to two females at work one thru text calling her gorgeous and another about making him dinner that literally broke my heart. so now we are at a point of sleeping apart not talking nothing I have never felt so alone in my life 😢😢