Does anyone here have kids from different people? Like my oldest is from my ex husband and the baby I'm carrying is from my current husband. We are talking about discipline and he says he is going to be more stricted with this baby when it gets older than he is with my daughter who is 4 now. Shouldn't we discipline the same?
I’ve realized that people are always trying to get away from their husbands like oh u need a vacay away from my kids and husband ASAP Loll it’s funny bc to me a vacay IS with my husband we have so much fun together !! He’s like my bestie !
Okay ladies I need advice. My husband came home from work a few weeks ago and decided he no longer wanted to be a husband or father. He told me that the kids and I need to leave and if we dont he will no longer pay the Bill's. I am unable to work because of high risk pregnancy. My only option is to move back to ohio and stay with my parents. (We live in Kentucky now) also last weekend I was admitted to the hospital and he was home with the kids...he decided to just walk out and leave them home alone while he went to hang with friends. I'm livid and to the point where I want my children away from him and myself too. Am I wrong for moving so far away?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My husband doesn't want a baby shower..... he said if we can't afford to buy our own stuff and have people come and buy them for us then why have a baby if we can't afford it. I know we can, we'll I can but it's my last one and I want one. I love my babies.... Every baby is a blessing :) should I try to convince my husband or let it go ????
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I'd say discipline the same! but my fiance would say the discipline between male and female should be different anyway.. however the kids should not be treated any differently it can cause issues later on in life one might feel like they where disciplined more then the other and cause a sibling rivalry..
Kayleigh·
Мама дочки (4 года)
My daughters bio father isn't around he hasn't seen her since she was 2.
Lexa·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (21 нед.)
My daughter will be almost 4 when my newborn arrives, and they both have different daddies. My current partner says the same thing. Because they have different fathers, it's hard to raise them exactly the same unless both dads shared the same values as well. They'll just have different personalities! Try to make it something positive. Instill your own values and that will maintain some stability for them both. :)
Shannon·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
not necessarily