Just going on a rant..... I just don't understand! I try.... I do EVERYTHING i am supposed to! I lost weight, I take…

are you positive you ovulate I didn't and when I did the eggs weren't healthy, talk to your gynecologist :)

Yes, my obgyn has done every test possible. I have went thru ultrasounds to see if I had any cysts, folicals, we have checked the strength of the levels in my eggs, i've done crap loads of blood tests, glucose tests... i'm normal :(

this has never happened

You're thinking about it waaay to hard. stop "trying". relax, track, let it happen on its own. you're thinking about it so much that you're throwing your cycle off. you're stressing it. and you can't do that when ttc. I struggled for 2 years to become pregnant, as well as pregnant with a viable baby. I promise if you think about half of what you're doing, relax, and have fun with it and don't label it as "trying" that BFP will come in no time. It upsets me to see ladies struggle. I was one of them but you cannot make it a chore. and you cannot stress out. it makes it that much harder.

idk how to not try lol. like i ovulate way earlier than im supposed to, so then i have to wait 3 weeks for my period. it drives me crazy

I would stop checking your ovulation. you've done every test you can. focus on something else anything else. babies are notorious for coming when we don't expect it.

@bab33loveee, in other words, towards your SO. don't say "okay we have to have sex today, tomorrow, the next day, the next day then twice this day! " don't even let him know when you're ovulating when you catch it. just get him in the mood and do the deed. but first and for most. you need to get your cycle on track. because I'll be honest. I threw mine off so badly it took 2 months to get myself to a stable cycle where it was reliable to track. go out with your man, have some fun. fuck when you get done! just have FUN. and If it doesn't happen again. you do It all over again.. the minute we decided to stop trying, 2 months later I came up pregnant. the less you think about it, the easier it will become for you concieve. wanting it so badly sometimes can and will throw your body out of whack. so...just have fun :) if your doctor has said you're completely fine with no issues at all. then I completely think it's just because you're stressing it. ease up, pretty girl. you will be a great mother. and you can be a mother. you just gotta ease up a little

I stopped trying and started focusing on myself and my health. and ended up conceiving our baby while completely wasted. it's hard, but stressing makes it more difficult on your body. stress messes up your body a lot. I would just have sex a lot and make it fun.

it's just over a year ago i wasnt ovulating at all. i just wanna know that everything is fine.

it's hard not to think about it lol.

Your stressing your body so your body's not allowing you to get pregnant because it's not a good environment for the baby so relax it will happen when it happens