So moms I need help... My first born is almost six months old and his dad who I've been with for four years just got a…

he didn't offer u guys move with

right?^^^^ I would be pissed

Yeh of course he did but I am having a hard time wanting to leave my family. When I told him I was worried I might be depressed he said he didn't need the drama and he would go by himself

Sorry I always forget all the details lol

@josephsmomma2015, I'm sorry but I would move...that's what seems like to best thing for your family,especially if it's a good job opportunity. what is the job?

It is so hard finding or getting a good job these days. I know it is hard but this is a good thing! Feel blessed, my husband is having a hard time finding a stable job. It could be worse.

I would move with him, sometimes ya gotta make sacrifices for your family even if it's hard to do

I was going to go with him but then he threw it in my face that he would just go without us. And that's what bothers me. He doesn't even care. He has a good job now and we would be fine if he stayed. That's not even the point though because I was going to go with him

If you made a big deal about it he may have thrown that in your face because he is taking it either way. Did you make him feel bad?

maybe he just assumed that you guys were going with him and when you said you were nervous to go it hurt his feelings? @josephsmomma2015

That sucks....I totally understand where you're coming from, you voiced your concerns and was probably looking for support from him because you were sad at the idea of leaving your family...and he took it wrong and got mad and basically said fuck it, I'll go without you...I would be really upset by that, too! I would just tell him how you feel, that you weren't saying you didn't want to go with him you were just venting, because you are allowed to feel sad about leaving family behind! And tell him that his reaction was really hurtful!

Thank you so much ❤️ @hellosweetie

That's exactly how I feel. @hellosweetie

You're welcome, mama 😍 sorry you're going through this, I hope he realizes that he overreacted and you guys work it out and come up with some kind of compromise 😊