So i find out what im having next tuesday if baby cooperates. I am not telling my husband I want to surprise him. I need some ideas on how to reveal what were having :)

I got a pinata I am going to fill it with either pink hats or blue hats and candy.
There's a ton of cute ideas on Pinterest but my favorite is the one where everyone comes in and chooses either pink lemonade or blue Gatorade or you know whatever drink and that's their gender guess and then after everyone has arrived and sat down you have someone bring out a cake with pink or blue icing in the middle or you film yourself holding a pink and blue onesie and bring the right color to the party and pull it out of a gift bag, or pop a balloon with colored confetti or special order chocolate candy with a colored candy inside. There's lots of fun ideas
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.